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HungDad207-I don't understand people like you. Why get upset because someone gets turned on by you? You should be flattered. You don't have to mess around with the person, just enjoy the experience.

I worked at a factory a few years ago and I got injured and was on light duty. I had to go over to one of our warehouses for a couple of weeks and take inventory. It was just me and the forklift driver most of the time. It was summer so the heat was making me extremely horny and I had shorts on and I never wear underwear. I went the whole first week with my zipper down and my hard cock positioned so it was showing through the fly. During breaks we sat at the only desk. There was only one chair, so we took turns sitting on it and sitting on the desk. My cock would be at eye level with him the entire time I was on the desk and he never said anything. So I decided to take it to the next level and when I was sitting in the chair I allowed the head to slip out of the fly (I would be hard the entire time). He finally mentioned that I was hanging out, so I apologized and put it away. A few minutes later I had taken it out again when he was turned the other way and had my hands in my lap covering it. He asked me if I had it out and I said yes, so he asked me to show it to him and stroke it. I was scared at this point because I didn't know if he was going to tell anyone, but I did stroke it for him briefly. This happened on Friday. The following week I got bolder and started taking my dick out on every break and stroking it. He would just sit there chatting with me like nothing was out of the ordinary. Every so often he would watch me stroking it for a couple of minutes. After a couple of days I started bringing lube and really started going at it. I never came though, I just kept edging. Finally he asked me to stop because it was making him hard and he couldn't do anything because he was married. I wasn't attracted to him at all, so I didn't try to do anything with him. I stopped for the rest of the day. But the next day, Friday, I started up again. It was my last day working at the warehouse so I wanted to make the most of it. He finally told me he wanted to watch me come. So I dropped my shorts to my ankles and started jerking off in earnest. We were interrupted by a phone call, so I continued stroking myself while he was on the phone. When he was done with the call I shot all over the floor. Afterwards he grabbed his crotch and said that it was really hot watching me. I probably could've convinced him to jerk off for me, but like I said, I wasn't attracted to him so I didn't. It was just such a turn on knowing he was getting turned on by it.
 

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I used to work in an office that was all women. They were all a little pent up. The supervisor was divorced 3 times at the age of 37, another chick was a closet lesbo, another one was on all these dating sites and couldn't find a man, another was a strict Catholic and was celibate. Being the only guy, they were always trying to make me the bitch. They were always clucking about the window being open, the radio station, the stapler being in the right drawer, who gets lunch at what time, etc. I had always been in the habit of going commando, and I always wore dress pants. I kept my ID badge on my belt, so that if one were to read my badge they would have to look directly at my cock. It was my way of showing them that no matter how much they tried to dominate me, I still had the cock. My supervisor spoke to me numerous times about the way my ID was displayed, and it was always funny watching her get flustered and and have trouble speaking when she'd lecture me about it.
 
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No, its not- how would a woman feel is a male boss was constantly staring at her chest?

If it makes you feel uncomfortable (which it sounds like it does, then go to HR. Harassment is harassment- plain and simple. Or the next time you 'catch' her doing it simply say 'my eyes are up here'....

This is not acceptable whether it be m/m, m/f, f/m or f/f....



 

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I wear boxers and during a meeting on time, not thinking, I stretched out, crossed my legs which pushed up my junk in front of a client. It was a relaxed atmosphere. After the client left, my boss said good meeting but your fucking dick was in the clients face the entire time. He wasn't angry but more on the joking side. :eek:

That's one great meeting!
 

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People often stop and gawk at my bulge in thew street, and point at it in Mc Donalds lol. You get used to it... I dont like women looking, but when I catch a guy staring its fucking hot! especially if he's straight, and is just thinking "fuck!" lol

You're my hero!
 

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I work at Home Depot so I wear jeans to work every day. A few on the cashiers would look at me and giggle among themselves. I wear skin tight jeans a go comando so nothing is hidden. We started joking around and one asked me if I had any pics. I had 3 or 4 on my phone. Now the whole store knows.
 

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When I was 16, I started working at K-Mart. My first day my boss walked me around the store showing me where everything is & introducing me to other employees. He brought me into the breakroom & one of the other managers was sitting at a table eating. She introduced herself, looked straight ahead at my crotch & said "Well hello new meat." My boss told her I was only 16. She blushed & said sorry. She had such a look of disappointment on her face. What a cock block. She was hot too.
 

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I get to shower at work in a locker room, almost everybody looks, not everybody cares. This one guy compared me to a Styptic Bear (?) lol bc I'm hairy and have a nice stype. When they were cleaning the shower they didn't put the curtain back up so a couple of the guys got a show, I just tried to keep from getting too much of a chubby bc i knew they were looking.

As for offices and women and people staring at bulges, I just think its funny, especially if the women aren't very attractive. And yes briefs almost always in 'professional' situations. We are human beings who have sexual desires, its nice to be considered desirable. As for HR and harassment, does it happen? yes, would a jury believe a woman harassing a man, unlikely unless you had a third person videoing the harassment multiple times (like with a phone cam hint hint) but it's difficult to see where the eyes are looking exactly. And plus there probably would be some jealous ones in the jury or behind the gavel or whatever. If you got more than 6" your "winning" lol
 

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it happened to me at work before as well, i had gotten a huge erection in my sweats so i was readjusting my dick when my boss turned to talk to me, she looked at me and then did a double take, it was funny as hell. She really isnt into dudes though, but given the chance, i would fuck her brains out lol
 

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Happens to me at work quite a bit. I wear briefs to work, and scrubs as I work in healthcare. Yeah, I catch people looking quite a bit. Don't worry about it. Take it as a complement and do nothing. At least you know you are attractive. Maybe she's just a cock watcher (I am too). I check out crotch all the time. I can't help it.
 

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I get this all the time too...and I keep it tightly packaged at the office...though i've learned to avoid khaki and other light colors.

However, off-duty, what I've noticed is like in the summer: if I'm free-balling in a pair of loose, thin warm-up shorts, then it's the movement of it swinging that really seems to captivate people.

I've also noticed that men in general are far more interested in its 'swing' than women. Maybe it's like in all primates: males are interested in checking out the front for competition and females check out the butt because a tight muscular butt seems to ...at a less than fully conscious level...represent health and a good potential breeder.
 

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I quit a job once when I was in my 20's because my boss kept looking at my crotch. It was a awesome job, but it required me to wear shorts all the time. He became more and more obvious with his looks and finally he came right out and told me I had a huge bulge, and it was driving him crazy. I quit that day.

You're no fun! *giggle giggle*

Honestly, if I weren't interested I would've said "Then you better take a picture, cause it's not goin' anywhere!" It's funny because women deal with this sort of thing everyday. It happens to a guy and WOA!! It's a pretty big deal! Women and gay men have better tolerances to things such as these because we don't have the prerogative like straight men do to demand better respect!

As to my first comment, it's just a joke. I don't know the full situation to have the right to judge it.
 

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Appreciate it, now...you're young: let's see how many stares you're going to get at 65, save, 75. As long as she doesn't touch you or say things inappropriately. However, you remain professional and look in her eyes. By all means, do not fuck her or have any relationship with your boss -- outside of work.

Best of luck, enjoy your endowment, and stay away from your superiors, male or female.
 

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Nowadays, sexual harrassment works both ways...and any Human Resources' Department worth its weight in gold -- is not going to tolerate harassment, period because the company does not want to be sued.

When I worked for the state, now retired, we had to attend classes on sexual harrassment and signed that you read and understood the state's policy on it...the state would quickly show you the door in a New York Minute, and in this case, in a New Mexico minute. They abhored lawsuits, especially those kinds.

Now, I used to harass the correctional officers, but none reported me...and they would harassment me (in fun -- not evil spirit) and they would laugh about it. However, they couldn't and wouldn't do it to any employee: corrections, administration, or teachers (I was a teacher).

They liked me so much, the officers would pile up in my room and shoot the breeze...boy were they fun. To this date, they still contact me: e-mail, Facebook, or by phone because I kept it real and I didn't run and tell. In fact, some of them were so fine...I enjoyed the attention. Hey, I'm 42C, 26, 35...and even some of my high-school students looked, admiringly. So, what are you going to do....for me, nothing?

Finally, I remember reading when a young prison inmate complained that he was being harassed by a female officer -- the officers and the inmates damned near threw him off the tier and saying, "what's wrong, are you some kind of fag, or something!? He dropped his lawsuit because I guess that tier railing was too much for him to bear.
 

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Honestly, if I weren't interested I would've said "Then you better take a picture, cause it's not goin' anywhere!" It's funny because women deal with this sort of thing everyday. It happens to a guy and WOA!! It's a pretty big deal! Women and gay men have better tolerances to things such as these because we don't have the prerogative like straight men do to demand better respect!
You've got to be kidding. Do you think if the original poster called public attention to his situation, he would be taken anywhere near as seriously as a female employee who's 40-something male boss stared at her breasts every time they met?
 

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I just took a new job and my boss - a lady in her late 40's - always stares at my crotch when I talk to her (She is seated on her chair and I always stand). She looks at my face when she is talking to me and when she is "thinking" during the conversation, she stares at my crotch.

I always wear briefs to work with a decent pair of jeans and shirt. In my boxers or in cotton slacks one can make out my penis, but not in jeans (or so I think).

I am not inclined to pursue anything sexual. I know ignoring is the easiest and most practical solution. But I am curious if anyone else has had this issue or similar and how they handled it.

I am just visualizing you in your Calvin Klein classic white briefs, light colored Ralph Lauren polo shirt and a pair Classic Levis with a nice black leather belt chatting on you cell with a client while pacing the office. All the while, the ladies (and possibly guys) straining to get a peek of your strapping body!!:smile: