I have a boss that I get along with fairly well, we have lunches together, we chat in his office mostly about work. He's married.
Lately I've noticed he would stand closer to me when we're talking, not that it bothers me. Recently though I was talking to him in his office, he was sitting behind his desk, I was standing in front of his desk about 7 feet away. So we're chatting about something work related and then he leans his chair back and puts is hands behind his head, we continue talking, then with his one hand, while talking he casually sqeezes his crotch but then keeps doing it for a few seconds, longer than expected. I though it was odd.
Another time I was at my cubicle and he sits/leans at my desk while talking to another coworker, somehow with his crotch close to my face, few inches away, again odd.
Do you think these things are intentional ? Do you think he likes to be close to me. I am mostly straight, but I do feel a need to be closer to some types of men. I like him but too nervous to do anything. He seems like he wants to be more open, to bond more, but it makes me nervous, first because I'm discreet, 2nd because he's married. What should I do ?
Lately I've noticed he would stand closer to me when we're talking, not that it bothers me. Recently though I was talking to him in his office, he was sitting behind his desk, I was standing in front of his desk about 7 feet away. So we're chatting about something work related and then he leans his chair back and puts is hands behind his head, we continue talking, then with his one hand, while talking he casually sqeezes his crotch but then keeps doing it for a few seconds, longer than expected. I though it was odd.
Another time I was at my cubicle and he sits/leans at my desk while talking to another coworker, somehow with his crotch close to my face, few inches away, again odd.
Do you think these things are intentional ? Do you think he likes to be close to me. I am mostly straight, but I do feel a need to be closer to some types of men. I like him but too nervous to do anything. He seems like he wants to be more open, to bond more, but it makes me nervous, first because I'm discreet, 2nd because he's married. What should I do ?