Bottom has a bigger dick than you

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_danyo, Jul 10, 2011.

  1. B_danyo

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    Does that ever happen ? Like you're pretty ripped and decently sized yourself, but you meet this skinny boy with a bigger dick and you cant help but get distracted as you start pounding him ? It sorta ruins the fantasy atleast for me so I tend to go doggystyle instead of missionary..

    Any thoughts on this guys ?
     
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    I mentioned something about this before. I'm always a bottom, size reasons as you say. I guess it's because the guys I've been with are usually use to a 4inch x -5inch dick to hold on to while masturbating. When faced with something bigger it's reasonable to think that it's safer to mount with something smaller than bigger. I never thought it as a way of them conquering me at the time, but sometimes I feel that's the case. They never return the favor. They like holding and tasting me, but that's as far as it goes. I ask if there's something wrong with how I taste, because I am not American born and cut. They say no, I taste better actually. I'm the cleanest guy he's been with one said. I suppose I just attract that type that use someone for sex. Having a big dick is considered only aesthetic when it comes to gay sex. Guys admire big, but considering where it's going to go it's easier to think small and work your way up.
    I have trust issues because of it. I don't like doggie style. I rather face them on my back.
     
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    Its no biggy really u can either make it a turn on the fact he could be putting it to some use but he is letting u do him or u could be versatile and enjoy it so itd be no big by default. :eek:).
    If that's too outside the box just learn to enjoy it as things seem to be cool between u so why make it an issue?
     
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    You could turn it into something kinky, too. I mean, just think that while you pound him, his meat is bouncing around like crazy.
     
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    It's also pretty hot to pound him, missionary style, with his knees next to his ears and watch him lick/suck himself as you go to town on his ass.

    Sklar
     
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    I always bottom and have a decent sized dick. Usually if the bottom is smaller than me it is no problem, however I have been chosing my tops more on size. I did have an older top who was doing me for awhile. He made me wear a jock strap to hide my dick. It kind of was a bigger turn on for me when doing it and I like wearing them now. Another thing is grab the guys cock and use it as a handle while fucking him.
     
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    It doesn't make any difference to me if a bottom is bigger, smaller or the same size as me. All that matters to me is that we both enjoy the sex.
     
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    I think most guys are very scared to bottom for a well hung guy. I met a guy a while back, with a very nice big dick. He is the first guy I enjoy sucking but besides that, I am very scared when the time comes for him to fuck me. He will be able to take me, easily, but taking him ... is a bit scary. It is always fascinating to see a well hung guy bottom. For me it is such a waist :)
     
  9. SR_DicksThick69

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    Ive bottomed once to a real small guy-and i wouldnt say im that small myself
     

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    I don't care what size a bottom's cock is, he just has to be into getting fucked by me, and we have to be having serious fun. Bottoms come in all shapes and sizes just like tops come in all shapes and sizes, that applies to cock and everything else. Preconceptions about these kind of things tend to eminate from porn and real sex isn't porn.
     
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    Interesting topic - I'm a bottom and have a small cock and am always amazed/confused/shocked when I see a big dick bottom in porn. I know it doesn't work this way but seems like if you have a huge beautiful cock it shouldn't be wasted, but I understand it's all about the guys preference. I don't know if this is true for all bottoms but when I first get going (cock first goes in) I'm very turned on but for whatever reason my cock shrinks like ice cold water was dumped on it. I think most guys like that as it provides a hot visual for them (I'm a bit of a size queen and if I get fucked he's probably hung) and if they need something to grab onto my balls are more than adequate.
     
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    I'm a top and the guys I fuck are bigger than me half the time and smaller the other half. The idea that the bigger-dicked partner should necessarily top is juvenile and represents not knowing much about it.
     
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    I've been with my partner for a year and a half- and I've always been the bottom 100%. I have a much bigger dick than he does- but he loves it and thinks it's hot. A lot of tops like fucking a guy with a huge dick.
     
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    I used to think the same way danyo but now I think that a big cocked bottom is hot. Not sure why my perception changed but it has opened more doors.
     
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    I guess I have never had sex with a guy because of the size of his dick. I much prefer to top, and have had bigger and smaller bottoms. Frankly, most of the time I don;t know what he has until he gets naked and at that point we are both turned on enough for it not to matter :) When I have sex, I am not having sex wth a guys dick, or ass, or mouth or whatever, I am having sex with the whole PERSON, and whatever parts make up that person are part of the exitement and pleasure. Just my perspective.
     
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    I'm a bottom and my dick is about the same size as my husband's. His is thicker, but in length we're comparable. I get really turned on when my dick bounces up and down while he fucks me. It doesn't seem to bother him in the least.

    Basically, I guess if you're not confident enough with the size of your dick to fuck me regardless of the size of my dick, then I don't want you to fuck me. Confidence is HOT!!!
     
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    I like a bottom with a big dick, nothing wrong with that at all. Great to see a bigger dick as I'm fucking a guy.
     
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    sometimes i worry a little about this. i tend to bottom, and since im fairly big its not uncommon that im bigger than the top. the last thing i want is for the top to feel awkward or selfconscious just because i am bigger.

    thankfully though, i think almost all the guys who have topped me actually enjoyed my size and werent at all irked by it.
     
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    Maybe you've just had all big partners, but it isn't uncommon at all.
     
  20. D_Evita_Zane

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    I am larger than my boyfriend who is a top and the issue of whether or not he feels uncomfortable about it has never come up. He just loves being the top.

    Honestly, if the guy is a total top then it shouldn't matter what the bottom is packing.
     
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