bottom needs help

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by kpchumpy, Dec 7, 2006.

  1. kpchumpy

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    here's the deal. This guy had been after me for a long time. He's a great guy, but I always said no because I always heard that his junk was big, which scared me a little. Finally he broke me down with his great personality, so I went out with him. Turns out, it's not just big, it's massive. I'm nowhere near prepared for this, and now he's this guy that I really like. How does a man quickly get ready for a penis that is (I'm estimating) 11X8. Help!
     
  2. vinny_spiruccino

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    Have you ever bottomed at all before, just not for a hung guy? If not:

    1. eat light the day before
    2. follow the Thanksgiving rule (always clean out the cavity before stuffing the bird)
    3. ONLY IF you followed rules 1 & 2... push out, kinda like you're... you know.
    4. Relax. Your reflexes will initially trigger you to clamp down, make a conscious effort to relax.

    If so:

    you knew all of that already, so skip to #5
    5. tell him to be gentle. If he's a big dicked top, it won't be the first time he's heard it - he won't be shocked. In fact, it might turn him on. What guy doesn't like to hear someone say he has a big dick?
    6. Go for a ride. At least at first; you can control how much you take and the rate at which you take it.
    7. Lots of lube (duh)
    8. Make out with him when its first going in - that'll turn you on.
    9. Get it in to the point where it feels like it's run into something - the proverbial "second ring" - rather than making in & out motions, keep it at that spot & just rock/rotate your hips a bit, kind of like you're massaging the thing it's hitting. It'll eventually open (and you'll feel it) & you'll be home free.

    Food for thought - if you don't like fingers, a pre-penetration toy usage help to get you ready too.
     
  3. kpchumpy

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    I guess that I'm worried that he couldn't get past the first ring, if you will. I've bottomed, but not like this.
     
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    I agree with everything Vinny said, but here's a trick I've used before. Obviously, you're gonna have to get those tight sphincter muscles loosened up a bit in order to accomodate his size. If you have a few minutes beforehand, excuse yourself to the bathroom. Use some lube and your fingers to loosen yourself up a bit. A butt plug also works really well for this. Leave it in for a few moments and allow your muscles a chance to relax and expand. Then, when it's 'showtime', you'll be better prepared to receive it!
     
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    You do not need to get ready. I will stand in for you. No problem!!:smile: :smile: :smile:
     
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    You just gotta love a Stunt Bottom!
     
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    I can't imagine writting a how to like "getting fucked for dummies" but if its got to be written I guess Vinnie did it for us. Love ya Vinnie. seriously now, for real.
     
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    thanks for the advise ...and offer. I'll give it a try. (deep breath)
     
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    My dear KPCHUMPY:

    It's very sporting of you to, at least, try taking the 11 x 8!

    I would request however (considering the 'support' and mentoring), that you provide us will a follow-up message..... you know: all the details.....:rolleyes:

    TTFN
     
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    Will do!
    By the way; TTFN? Nice Tiger reference!
     
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    Hi Vinny,
    I am not a gay male, but I loved reading your post.
    Some women could use this as a guide as well.
    As a women, I have never had anal sex.
    I have always been terrified of it. Mostly, thinking it would hurt really bad.
    So, I have to hand it to all of you gay males. You are braver than I am . :)

     
  12. vinny_spiruccino

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    Meh, me neither...
     
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    2 or 3 dildos in graduating sizes work to get you used to something larger. Play with them for a week or so. With the right preparation...he'll slide right in.
     
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    A boy can dream though, right?
     
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    Fantasize, you mean?
     
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    Still keep em in the dishwasher?
     
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    Clever idea, stick them in the washing machine, easy to clean up...
     
  18. vinny_spiruccino

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    Ooh - look! Mrs... I mean - Jeff - yeah, Jeff's here! HE can certainly vouch for the fact that everything I said earlier by way of advise actually works. Doesn't it PB?
     
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    I have certainly heard things.. and those videos of yourself having sex with various men, were awfully hot....:rolleyes:
     
  20. vinny_spiruccino

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    MM hmm....
     
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