Bottom Question

[reg8reg]

Hey everyone, just joined after checking out the site a little bit. I tried looking around for a certain topic but couldn't find it.

So I started seeing this guy that has a nice size down there :wink:. He's about the same as me (7x6) maybe even a touch thicker. So I've always thought of myself as mainly a top, but lately I've been wondering what it's like to bottom. So onto the question. I'm sure there are quite a few people here that have quite a bit more experience than myself.

What kind of tips would you recommend for a guy that usually likes his sex more vigorous but is used to giving not receiving? Also I think it might be interesting if people could describe what it feels like going in (and being in there) and also what your first time was like.

P.S. Ladies please feel free to add your opinion as well as I'm sure you can offer invaluable opinions seeing as you have the option to take it in two places!

 

[CygnusKnights]

First off be clean.. you dont want him to pull out get a whiff and kill the mood. Try to eat a proper fibre diet and go before all this is gonna go down.. or else you may want to douche..

I'd suggest you practise on yourself with things first..
He's a bit thick if you ask me..first a first time...

Not saying you will feel this but it could feel like you are being poked by something and have this need to pee.... I recall feeling that but like I said, you might not at all..
And since you're not used to things going in,, only out, try not to "SQUEEZE" on him because that's going to hurt you because you're tensing up..

When he is first trying to enter you.. "push out" as if u were going to do #2 to let him go in.. I suggest you go in a position where you are in more control of how much you let in and you control the thrusting.. so he doesnt hurt you.. you can change it up once you are "loosened" up. be sure to ues lots of lube, protection at your own discretion.
you'll need to lube inside you as well as obviously.. well him.

Relax and lube.. one of the challenges is getting the "ring" to open up. Usually if this is tense and things are being rushed in/ not lubed well enough.. you could damage it.. usually if it gets hurt even a little I'll be game over and not in the mood anymore. it'll feel sore and "hurt" a little so mood's gone.

Be relaxed, maybe have a bit of beer, wine, or if you prefer to be sober be sure not to tense when you're first being "probed". Will take time.. Try to be clean in there.. things can get messy and become a big turn off if half way all that thrusting gave you guys a nasty surprise..

Arch your back, work at your pace, be clean, be relaxed, try not to squeeze on his dick too hard... unless he likes that. lol. stay safe, be smart, respect your body and listen to it's signals and take care.

oh, if he's poking your bladder you may want to change positions and try a different angle. most importantly have fun and communicate with each other.

 

[CygnusKnights]

oh. please do share how your experience goes if you choose to! It's always thrilling to hear back on how poppin ur anal cherry was, unless of course it was a terrible experience that concludes you to saying "I will never try this AGAIN!"

 

[kiahman]

I like the advice! I am a top, but here recently, I am curious to bottom. Especially after this great advice!

 

[reg8reg]

Thanks for the advice and as far as cleanliness goes I don't anticipate that to be a problem (well I really hope not) because I know how big of a turn off that would be for me let alone him. But that was awesome in depth advice thanks Cygnus!

To agree with Kiahman I have always been more of a top personality but I am curious to see what bottoming would be like. Admittedly, I think it would be easier with something a little less thick but I think I'll learn to appreciate it :biggrin1:

So come on let's hear your first time stories as well for some inspiration.

 

[D_GlennFeckless]

I don't remember the feelings of my very first time, but I do recall the first time with a well hung guy that was hitting up on the bend. He was over 8" and could get just over 6 in when he hit that "wall" and I started to cringe from the pain. He kept telling me to relax, and was very gentle as he steadily pushed a little further (an experienced well-hung top), but I didn't yet understand what he meant by "relax" and couldn't get past that pain and the seemingly impenetrable wall.

At home, watching some porn and reading about human physiology I can to realize that with a little bit of work there's a lot deeper that one can go without injury. I started with a couple of toys, one 7 x 6, one 10 x 7 and one 18 and slender. Taking my time, on my own, without having to worry about anyone else, I began to explore what he meant by relaxing. It's a whole body thing, and recognizing how to signal the internal muscles to relax and allow the sigmoid colon to straighten was an epiphany! I haven't found a man since, and I've been with a few monsters, who can't go balls deep - it's absolute heaven.

From the sounds of it, you and your buddy shouldn't face this this challenge, but once you start bottoming the likelihood of finding yourself with a "big" partner goes up, especially if you're hanging around in seedy place like LPSG ;-)

Prepare yourself on your own, and your buddy will appreciate your newfound expertise. Trust me on this.

 

[blackbottom2]

From the sounds of it, you and your buddy shouldn't face this this challenge, but once you start bottoming the likelihood of finding yourself with a "big" partner goes up, especially if you're hanging around in seedy place like LPSG ;-)

Prepare yourself on your own, and your buddy will appreciate your newfound expertise. Trust me on this.

Excuse me I dont think the seedy reference to lpsg was quite relevant within your well written reply -

we can go off people you know :smile::smile::smile: