Tolerate? Why do something you don't want to do? That's what I don't get about this whole bottoming routine.
That is very hard to believe but I guess it's possible. I thought like 99.9% of gay guys love giving oral. I have a post somewhere on here about a man I know who was doing research on internet hookups and something like 500 gay guys, within a week's time, wanted to "service" him and expected "no reciprocation". (their words)
I posted before about this. I'd never heard of it until recently when a gay man mentioned it and told me about a website.
FROTTAGE What's Hot About Frot
It's about gay men being equal in relationships and not playing male/female, top/bottom, dominant or submissive roles. It's about bonding, love, no anal, not hooking up and for gay men who don't want to follow stereotypical behavior. It's also as safe as you can get and isn't degrading to either man.
I said much of this in an earlier post and the tops freaked out as usual. You don't want to deprive them of their pleasure, but when you tell them to be a bottom, they're not interested. They are at less risk for disease and anal damage when they're a top.
It's very psychologically damaging what tops do. Many gay men already have problems with love and self esteem, and when you have the tops giving them all these compliments about their bottoming skills they start to believe it.
On a prior post these bottoms were saying things like they are a proud bottoms, willling bottoms, or have been complimented on their bottoming skills. It's an awful way to think on oneself.