Bottom Transgender Women
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I'm a top, generally, so I don't mind if someone would rather bottom for me. Being "top" or "bottom" is really just a position, not a gendered thing. I know plenty of lesbian women who top or bottom, and they're very much fully female, just like a trans woman is. Being in the "top" or "bottom" position doesn't affect my feelings on my gender identity nor my sexuality. It's just a position.
Completely agree with you.
Surly transgender women all have to be tops?????? Be hot as hell to be topped by a woman but isn’t the point of them being their selves that they want to be topped?
I have never been with a trans woman but I’d be more than surprised if she bent me over haha
Actually, most of the transwomen I know are submissive. Some of us are dominant, some are not. Even those who are dominant (such as myself) often have no desire to top someone with the genitals we were born with as in many cases those genitals are a source of dysphoria and depression. As I stated before, being "top" or "bottom" is just a position, and has nothing to do with gender or orientation. It's fine if your dream is to get topped by a transwoman, but the reality is that it is extremely unlikely to happen. You'll see it a lot in porn, but in the real world things are far different. Enjoy your fantasies, but please don't make statements that, "Surely transgender women all have to be tops??????", because that is a very inacurate blanket statement.
Yea I would think most are submissive but seems on here the men mostly want to be stopped by trans women. Just look at the trans porn thread I would say 75% is "big dick trans" nonsense.
I am more into the Natalie Mars type etc
I’m so sorry I must of been half asleep, of course I meant surly all trans women are receivers not givers....my mistake
I'm actually really bothered by so many people wanting transwomen to top them like they see in porn. Porn is NOT reality. Many of the transwomen in pornography actually have to stop taking their HRT (hormone replacement therapy) to be able to perform, which causes them a lot of physiological and psychological issues. Others just take large doses of medication like Viagra (which can also be unsafe at the dosages taken). I'm not going to say people aren't entitled to having their fantasies, but actively seeking to be topped by a transwoman is actually seen as offensive by most of us. Also, I love how beautiful Natalie Mars is. I hope when I'm fully transitioned that I am half as pretty as she is.
Many, possibly most, transwomen prefer to be "submissive", or "bottoms", etc, because they prefer not to be in a role typically assigned to a male. They are female, and they want to be seen as, and treated as, female. Thus, many prefer to be on the receiving end of things sexually. While certainly not all transwomen, it is generally more likely than not that a transwoman would prefer to be penetrated vs being the penetrator.
Thank you for such a nice compliment! I'm only just beginning my transition medically, so I still have a long way to go before I feel confident in how I look physically. I do appreciate that people here seem to really like my profile image though! It's very comforting, and affirming.
I do find it interesting that so many guys want to get topped by a transwoman. Setting aside the fact that many if not most transwomen would prefer not to top/penetrate a guy, it is difficult for someone on hormone replacement therapy to achieve and maintain an erection hard enough for penetration. Which only complicates matters more for these guys who would like to have a transwoman top them.
Ignoring all of that for a moment, I wonder why it is such a fantasy/fetish for so many guys. It's a HUGE thing in porn right now, which means there's a market for it. I often wonder ifit is just because of the "taboo" nature of it due to society's stance on transgender issues right now? Or if it is the "exotic nature" of the encounter? Both of those reasons I take issue with personally...enough so that my (Punk) leather vest I wear every day has the transgender symbol painted on the back with the words "Not your sex toy" in the middle.
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I love your vest, just from the description!
I also really appreciate your point about how "top/bottom" doesn't necessarily equal "male/female" or "dominant/submissive" or anything else. It's just the way two bodies are positioned!
To answer your question though, I wouldn't say I fantasize about getting "topped" by a trans woman ... but I do like being submissive to women so I'm not opposed to the concept! So maybe it's just a fantasy of submission. I also think that for a lot of guys, being with a trans woman feels like a safer, "less gay" way of taking a dick, which is what they really want!
But personally I feel there's a lot of ways to be submissive to a woman (trans or otherwise); it doesn't have to mean getting penetrated with a dick or strap-on.
I also really appreciate your point about how "top/bottom" doesn't necessarily equal "male/female" or "dominant/submissive" or anything else. It's just the way two bodies are positioned!
To answer your question though, I wouldn't say I fantasize about getting "topped" by a trans woman ... but I do like being submissive to women so I'm not opposed to the concept! So maybe it's just a fantasy of submission. I also think that for a lot of guys, being with a trans woman feels like a safer, "less gay" way of taking a dick, which is what they really want!
But personally I feel there's a lot of ways to be submissive to a woman (trans or otherwise); it doesn't have to mean getting penetrated with a dick or strap-on.
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When a guy says to me “are you top or bottom”, my response is always “HOW many WOMEN have you asked that question to?” It offends me so damn much.
I was born in the wrong body, WHY would I want to use the thing I hate the most on you? WHY would that question leave your lips.
However, as Riley said, it’s not all black and white. I would use my tongue, fingers (depending on my nail situation!) and dildos. I may use a strap on at some point. Perhaps the question shouldn’t be “are you top or bottom”, but whether you are comfortable to use your doo-dah.
I was born in the wrong body, WHY would I want to use the thing I hate the most on you? WHY would that question leave your lips.
However, as Riley said, it’s not all black and white. I would use my tongue, fingers (depending on my nail situation!) and dildos. I may use a strap on at some point. Perhaps the question shouldn’t be “are you top or bottom”, but whether you are comfortable to use your doo-dah.
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MXRileyQuinn, I do agree with Mr Danic77, you are very attractive. Good luck with your transition. I think with most men that want to be topped by a transwoman it goes back to every man's fantasy of being seduced by a beautiful woman. With a transwoman that fantasy can go to where the male is actually taken sexually by the object of his fantasy. Or, and I think this applies in most cases, the entire interaction with a transwoman is a sexual fantasy that includes the thrill and taboo nature of being perceived as "gay". It’s probably taken months or even years to screw up the courage to actually seek the encounter with such an exotic woman that he feels why not go all the way. In for a penny, in for a pound (or should I say pounding) as they say.
Have to agree with the girls on this since I'm finding out I'm a transgender , I really want to be the one being penetrated and not the other way around cause my ed won't let me for one reason and the other is the woman in me wants to be treated like one ...
Ya'll are missing a massive part here.
Most trans women are bottoms because Testosterone blockers and estrogen give them impotency (in most cases). The vast majority of trans porn actresses actually stop taking their testosterone blockers and use things like Viagra and Cialus to get hard.
Not saying this is all trans women, but like the vast majority of us. lol.
Most trans women are bottoms because Testosterone blockers and estrogen give them impotency (in most cases). The vast majority of trans porn actresses actually stop taking their testosterone blockers and use things like Viagra and Cialus to get hard.
Not saying this is all trans women, but like the vast majority of us. lol.
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