Bottom vs top

[frenchdude]

Hey, I have trouble understanding what is a top and what is a bottom....it seems the definition changes with the person who identify himself...

What is a bottom and what is a top?

What about a power bottom and a power top?


Thanks!

 

[lighlowe]

oh a bottom receives the D a top supplies it.
As for "power" that just means their bossy and like to be in control

 

[frenchdude]

oh a bottom receives the D a top supplies it.
As for "power" that just means their bossy and like to be in control

Thanks...that I understand...but sometimes a top sucks sometimes he dosen't...thats what I find confusing...

 

[BillM]

oh a bottom receives the D a top supplies it.
As for "power" that just means their bossy and like to be in control

Yep !!

 

[inspectordickins]

Thanks...that I understand...but sometimes a top sucks sometimes he dosen't...thats what I find confusing...

In French:
Top = actif
Bottom = passif

 

[frenchdude]

In French:
Top = actif
Bottom = passif

Yup...but still, why some top suck and some others don't suck?

 

[inspectordickins]

Yup...but still, why some top suck and some others don't suck?

I guess because they enjoy it as well...
Sucking a cock and getting one in your ass are two things that are not comparable so one may enjoy blowing his partner without wanting to be fucked by him.

 

[Sklar]

Yup...but still, why some top suck and some others don't suck?

Experience.

Sklar

 

[Bloste]

Its all about what feels good. Bottom doesn't always mean passive, submissive, or effeminant. It does mean they enjoy the feeling of cock in thier hole and getting pounded. Lots of bottoms are very masculine. You probably wouldn't know they were gay or bi outside the bedroom. As a matter of fact lots of guys that may be obviously gay and effeminant in public, drag queens, and cross-dressers are very hot tops in bed.

 

[MC1000]

Its all about what feels good. Bottom doesn't always mean passive, submissive, or effeminant. It does mean they enjoy the feeling of cock in thier hole and getting pounded. Lots of bottoms are very masculine. You probably wouldn't know they were gay or bi outside the bedroom. As a matter of fact lots of guys that may be obviously gay and effeminant in public, drag queens, and cross-dressers are very hot tops in bed.

My limited experience is a TOTAL top does not suck And a TOTAL bottom does not want his dick sucked. When they add versatile to their description it mean they are versatile when it comes to oral. Not carved in stone, just a generality.

 

[Bloste]

Hmm, been with total tops, who sucked my cock and ate my ass.

 

[jdoe86]

Then you have versatile tops and versatile bottoms.

 

[KuronoB]

A total top is just a guy who does not take dick in his ass at all. The terms top/bottom generally don't apply to oral sex. Yes, you can find terms like "oral bottom", but the terms have to specify oral because the author knows that the basic word "bottom" doesn't really apply.

 

[tarheel6]

Yup...but still, why some top suck and some others don't suck?

I'm confused by your confusion. Sexuality is a bit fluid. Total top, for me, is about not bottoming in anal. Power bottom, to me, suggests someone who can take the dick long, hard, and with enthusiasm.

Not sure there's much left to address.

 

[ronin001]

I have always been on top

 

[DavidCAHD]

Top and bottom only refer to actual penetration of penis into butt. It actually gets more confusing than that, but top and bottom is the basic system we work around.

As far as who sucks what dick, that's up to the people having sex. Its exactly the same with straight people, some guys will go down a woman, some guys wont. Everybody is different. I guess you just gotta go with the flow, regardless of gender or whatever.

 

[Gj816]

Hummmm. What's all the confusion about? Did anyone happen to mention flip fuckin? Just thought I'd throw that into the mix.

 

[deleted1074483]

Hmm, been with total tops, who sucked my cock and ate my ass.

I'm one of those 100% tops who loves to suck cock and eat ass, and eating a clean trimmed ass is my specialty, as a top guy I kinda think its my duty to get my bottom guy relaxed, loosened and slick ready to take dick. I love my dick sucked and I love to facefuck a guy too, but I hate my butt/ass played with or touched at all.

 

[Gj816]

I'm one of those 100% tops who loves to suck cock and eat ass, and eating a clean trimmed ass is my specialty, as a top guy I kinda think its my duty to get my bottom guy relaxed, loosened and slick ready to take dick. I love my dick sucked and I love to facefuck a guy too, but I hate my butt/ass played with or touched at all.

If more tops were like that we'd all be happy.

 

[sodominsane]

all these classes....there needs to be a players handbook or simething