I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend, so we only get to see each other on weekends. We've fooled around, but haven't fucked yet. He's got about 9x6 (Seriously, it's about as big around as my wrist), and I'm a rather small guy (body-wise), so I'm pretty nervous about taking it, and he's really nervous about hurting me. My ex was at the opposite end of the spectrum, and even he said i was incredibly tight. I don't have any toys, yet, so is there anything I can try to do to loosen up before I see him again without them? Or any tips in general for being really tight and trying to take something that big? We don't want to try poppers.