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I've been in a relationship with this top for almost two years. I recently moved out to be with my top. He owns a secondary house on this property, I rent from him. The great thing is, he doesn't have to drive down to where I used to live (some 45 miles) to fuck me, he just walks forty steps to my door. We've talked about going to San Francisco this coming Spring, to play with others. I do whatever my top wants, because that's just the way I'm built mentally.
I would like to preface my question the following way. He spent about 6 months training me in the ways of how he prefers to fuck. He's more anally oriented than oral. It's rare that I have to get him hard first with my mouth before he enters me. He likes that I open myself up with toys before he enters me. And once inside he grows considerably. So I have become accustomed to how we fuck. He's very patient with me, and he isn't the type of guy, that once he's in me, he slams me very hard. He takes his time.
I'd do anything he says. And I would fuck anyone he wants me to. I've told him I wouldn't do it, unless he was there to supervise, whoever was fucking me. He says that is what he wants to.
Should I just go with the flow, when we go to S.F.? I want to please him, even if, He wasn't fucking me.
 

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Just embrace the change...if it helps, think about the pleasure you will bring to your current top when he watches you get pounded, and the pride he will feel in your "job well done." If everything goes well, your one time fling will leave afterward, feeling very jealous of your dom. That will be a great feeling for your dom.
 

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Thank you Petrohead, I intend to. Its just that I've gotten used to one way, & I don't know if I can stand to be fucked by someone new? That was my point.

You've been in a relationship with him for 2 years. Given that your profile age is 63, you have certainly handled a lot more significant changes than this, especially if he isn't the only guy to have topped you. Go with the flow, practice safe sex, and you should be fine.
 

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do as your told, you don't want to upset your Top do you? what happens when you disobey?

I haven't so far. I do what he wants. Even if that means I have to be fucked by someone else. He would probably with hold sex from me.
 

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Atomic, you're a bottom, not a doormat. You don't HAVE to do anything, if you don't want to.

Just because you're the bottom doesn't mean you are at his beck and call. You are not his slave. You are his sexual equal.

If YOU want to do something, with his permission, that's one thing.

If he tells you, you are GOING to do something, that crosses the line.

Choose who and what you want to be.

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