Bottoming Out

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LoveGirl: I don't want someone to get their cervix pounded because of something I said, from what I hear it is painful for most women, just not for me. Intercervical sex that I have also heard of intrigues me, although I believe it is nearly impossible. I don't know much about anatomy but I like the thought of him inside my stomach area instead of only 1/2 of him inside. :\

 

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rainsfletcher: You haven't really mentioned specifically what your problems are, but something you just posted caught my eye.

You said that the 'infections' might be caused by his size. Have you had infections in the past? There are some women for whom Urinary Tract Infections are a recurring problem. Usually, however, you would know what it is. UTIs usually don't have much to do with the size of your partners.

Sometimes, a bruised urethra can have the same symptoms, though. My girlfriend has had problems with this from time to time....

What specifically are the problems you have?

 

[Max]

Originally posted by judy angel@May 24 2004, 12:53 PM
My husband is too large to accomodate me, and i dont feel satisfied if he doesnt go in all the way up to the hilt ....

Judy

In replying to one of your other posts I missed what you said in this one. It seems strange that you don't feel satisfied because you can't take him all the way in, yet at the same time you know that his size causes trouble for you.

It sounds to me as if he has plenty to satisy you with on the size front ... you don't want any more penetration .. and you couldn't accept it anyway ... so why should you want him to come in deeper, rather than just get used to and enjoy the length you know you can accept? If you don't feel satisfied it can't be because you want deeper penetration, surely there must be another reason in your lovemaking.

I could understand it if you said that he was the unsatisfied one; it can be very frustrating having to hold back and never being able to use everything you have to the full. But he will know that he can't just let loose like a normal-sized guy could, and there are plenty of ways of making it up to him.

 

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EscapeGoat:

It seems strange that you don't feel satisfied because you can't take him all the way in, yet at the same time you know that his size causes trouble for you.

Helloo, new here... I decided to reply because this caught my eye.

I think I may know what judy meant, because I can relate to her statement. I have a boyfriend who bottoms out if he goes all the way in. The trouble is, that if he doesn't go all the way in, his pelvis never touches mine (in the missionary position) and it's that touching and grinding, and the clitoral stimulation that comes with it, that's my sole means of orgasm. It's the part I enjoy most about sex. And it's something that I haven't yet figured out a way to do with my boyfriend, because when he goes all the way in, it's very painful, and I often end up bleeding after sex because of it. The clit is simply in a place, on me at least, where it only gets touched if my partner is in up to the hilt.

I know there are lots of women who get much pleasure from the penetration alone, and the various spots to rub inside. But the clit is there to give lots of pleasure also, and to have it go unstimulated during sex is a problem. :\

Judy may have meant something else though. I could be wrong.

 

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LoveGirl: That makes me think. I've bled more times than just the first time. He's not rough or anything but he is pretty thick and my innerds don't part as easy as I might want them to. Even though it's usually a *little* painful I enjoy sex. :wub:

 

[jdoe86]

I have bottomed out with most of my girlfriends.. and I am only 8" long. I have to be carfull on how deep I thrust until they get used to it. Then I can usually thrust as hard as I want and pound them.

 

[B_RoysToy]

Geo8x6, you're got almost an inch more than I have, so that might explain my having bottomed out only once during my 29 years of marriage. I'm in the process of PE now (four months into it) and wish after a year of it I would have the opportunity to fuck my ex again, just to test its length via of bottoming out. But, alas, she has another mate and there's no way that could happen! BTW, your size seems to me the 'perfect' one for both looks and function.

Luke

 

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OhioMike69: I have bottomed out, but for me it depends on the position..it's been easier to do doggie style than missionary for example.

 

[B_RoysToy]

I think you're so right that bottoming out depends on the position and I'll add to that the time of the month for the female. After an unusually 'hard' bottoming out, a shifting of positions sometimes will remedy the torturous problem.

 

[Mr._dB]

Originally posted by OhioMike69@Jun 5 2004, 08:46 PM
I have bottomed out, but for me it depends on the position..it's been easier to do doggie style than missionary for example.

Yeah, doggy-style is a "deep penetration" position, and it's easy to bottom out.

But I also find it to be a good "control" position in that I can more accurately gauge the depth of my thrusts and stop short of boxing her cervix without feeling like I'm exercising undue restraint.

 

[blar]

i bottom out a lot in certain positions.... doggy style i almost always hit a women’s cervix i get to excited sometimes and misjudge how much i put in her

 

[autumnbreeze4321]

I have had several men go "too" deep, and I suppose they have hit my cervix. I love deep, hard pounding from a very thick penis, but one stroke too deep and it's all over.

Doggie is best for deep hard thrustiong with an exceptional long penis. I acheive my best orgasms in the missionary position with my legs over his shoulders when hes hard thrusting and are pelvises are smacking together on each thrust. I ccont do this with a penis that is 8+

 

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LoveGirl: I can take less than half of my love before he bottoms out, and my cervix doesn't bother getting hit too bad unless it was a really hard pounding...which is rare because Michael goes pretty slow. As for my favorite position it's missionary with my legs spread out from my sides. I am fairly flexible so it's no trouble.

 

[GottaBigOne]

i bottom out every time i have sex with my gf, but in missionary i believe i achieve the "perfect" depth. I can feel that im up against her cervix or just passed it(not inside it, but there is a little space passed it in the vagina. My gf enjoys this only because it turns her on to feel me so deep and she likes that my pubic bone is grinding agaist her clit. Another girl that I'm fucking however is well endowed when it comes to vaginal depth, and although sometimes she says its hurts but in "good way" she can take me much deeper than my gf can doggy. She likes it very much when i put all of it in her ( i can feel it pressing hard against her uterus which is really fucking hot. She says I hit a spot of her that only one other guy had hit before with his hand, she said that spot made her scream uncontrollably and squirt. I was fucking her really hard a deep one time when she starting screaming really really loudly. I hads to stop though as I was going at a furious pace for like 5 mins and just ran out of steam.
Next time though I'll make her scream and squirt.

 

[hung]

Excitement levels of both partners involved in sexual activity can result in bottoming out. If both of us are really excited I can push and shove and rarely bottom out. If she is not totally turned on I can often bottom out; however I have learned that I can go side to side (left to right) or (right to left) as I stroke in and out. Our preferred position is Dog Style Sex and is very exciting for the both of us.

Our foreplay very frequently involves the active use of our hands on the sex organs of each other. Often we both engage in oral activity as intense foreplay.

All of this allows us to enjoy sex with out the bottoming out problems most of the time.

Now for a quickie we both realize that I must control the depth I stroke to.

But then, that is what sexual pleasure is all about. Each of us communicates with each other and we enjoy sexual activity very often. Well above the frequently published averages.

A Senior Citizen, but still enjoying life.