A lot of the time the hole will hurt due to several things… too big of a cock inserted .. not enough lube .. and not relaxing .. is the three main things I’d consider looking in on ..
Also if the guys is smaller / around average. And fucks you pretty hard then could be sore ..
But with me if/ when I bottom if my hole doesn’t hurt—- or it’s more of a sore thing ( there’s a difference ). But if I am pounded good and my ass is sore then I am kind of happy with it as I enjoy the pain for it …
Now my question is when hurting/sore when done or while doing it .. around an inch inside your anus does there feel like there is a lump there? Or near the anus on the outer edge?
If this is something more personal matter you can direct message me .. I know it. An be a sensitive subject to a lot of guys