BOTTOMS AND LADIES: Do you prefer it hard and deep OR slow and passionate?

[blackbottom2]

Ok, I'm convinced after that post I am a sick sado-masochistic fuck. I LOVE positions where it feels like I'm inflicting an ungodly amount of pain on my cock when I push into the backstop or when I pry her open - delivering the same amount of ungodly/orgasmic pain into a vagina. Having a slight upward curve on my dick coupled with your description of how you want to fuck seems to be a beautiful painful ecstasy combo there.

MMMMMMMM any more sick sado-masochistic fuckrs online-

I NEED ONE NOW

 

[RawDog]

And you've successfully made me wet - AGAIN!

My morning's not complete until I can make you write those words.

 

[B_subgirrl]

My morning's not complete until I can make you write those words.

Enjoy your completed morning then :tongue:

 

[D_Andy_Conda]

It really depends on my mood. If it's someone that I like, I'll take the slow and passionate route the first few times.

The pace allows me to get to know the person's body and what actions please and pleasure them. I guess it's part of my character
to take the studied approach first and try to observe and learn by taking my time, and hopefully vice versa.

I'm not much of a romantic, I'm extremely logical and analytical and it can transfer to my love life. But I am passionate.

I find that anyone, with any partner, can get satisfied by the hard, deep and fast approach. It definitely has its merit and feels amazing to be overcome by such lust. But it's really not as easy or should I say, more rare, to experience truly satisfying and passionate sex. And it doesn't even have to do with being with someone you love in that instance, just someone you respect and appreciate for the act of sharing your bodies.

 

[RawDog]

It really depends on my mood. If it's someone that I like, I'll take the slow and passionate route the first few times.

The pace allows me to get to know the person's body and what actions please and pleasure them. I guess it's part of my character
to take the studied approach first and try to observe and learn by taking my time, and hopefully vice versa.

I'm not much of a romantic, I'm extremely logical and analytical and it can transfer to my love life. But I am passionate.

I find that anyone, with any partner, can get satisfied by the hard, deep and fast approach. It definitely has its merit and feels amazing to be overcome by such lust. But it's really not as easy or should I say, more rare, to experience truly satisfying and passionate sex. And it doesn't even have to do with being with someone you love in that instance, just someone you respect and appreciate for the act of sharing your bodies.

Amazing post. I find the feedback loop with sex the most alluring aspect. The more you listen and feel for the reactions, the more subtle the stimulation can get and the more profound the moment becomes.

 

[D_Rosalind Mussell]

I love it all. I actually don't think much about what I'm going to do before (or during!) sex, though. The mood and chemistry dictate my instinctual responses. Past a certain point of arousal I become completely immersed in the moment and logical thought processes go out a window for the most part. I think this is why I never give head the same way twice. I'm always going with the flow of the mood and keeping pace with it through my ministrations.

 

[marcus_likes_big]

sub bi male here- a real bottom- with a hung male, I like it all, and really, as a true bottom like it any way he wants to give it. My ass/mouth/hands are there for him to please him. BUT, for m? I like when it starts slow and tender, builds with lots of hard pounding and heavy thrusting, him putting me in various positions, and then when he comes? I love it when it keeps getting slower and slower as he gets closer and closer to orgasm until, he is almost motionless in my ass as he cums- so that I can feel his cock throb a nt and feel a nice load shot up inside my hungry ass... then repeat!

 

[JessePee]

I prefer a mixture of the two.

 

[psguy64]

When I bottom, rubbing the prostate is good for starters and at some point I cum without touching myself -- totally a new feeling each time. Slow and easy works well than for the top to finish is again a shared pleasure.

 

[marcus_likes_big]

I can cum as well without touching myself- provided the cock is fairly big- wide and long, and I do need heavy thrusting in order to cum without touching myself...

 

[BigTodger]

Start off slow and passionate and then take it to a point where I am getting my brains f---ed out folowed by copious amounts of verbal abuse.

 

[Stephenmass]

Whatever the mood calls for.

 

[D_Andy_Conda]

Amazing post. I find the feedback loop with sex the most alluring aspect. The more you listen and feel for the reactions, the more subtle the stimulation can get and the more profound the moment becomes.

Right.

Variety being the spice of life, I find it good to vary not only what I do sexually but how I do it also. Both options are great, but I imagine after ten years of the same every time, it gets old.

Although the question is about preference, inferring that one engages in both. Just adding some of my
thoughts to those that choose to only engage in one of the two options.

 

[B_CheatingStacy]

I love them both. But I think the ideal is when you are so into each other it starts slow and passionate and slowly builds until ultimately it is hard and deep and both sooo caught up in the raw sexuality......

 

[cuautli]

Not a bottom per se, but I like it fast and passionate!

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

All of the above. :biggrin1:

 

[RawDog]

Right.

Variety being the spice of life, I find it good to vary not only what I do sexually but how I do it also. Both options are great, but I imagine after ten years of the same every time, it gets old.

Although the question is about preference, inferring that one engages in both. Just adding some of my
thoughts to those that choose to only engage in one of the two options.

True. There's always a time and place to prefer one or the other.

I want to add something else; Sometimes, if the size disparity between the woman's vaginal capacity and the guy's cock is large enough, slow and passionate *is* deep and hard.

I've had instances where we're passionately kissing and I'm gently pushing her backstop and she asks me to stop my motion altogether because it's gotten too intense. This is the point she starts milking my cock involuntarily with her cunt spasming orgasms.