Bottoms, how does it feel to take cock?

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Does it hurt when he pounds it?
It shouldn’t! Or at least, it shouldn’t hurt in a bad way.

It’s important to note that bottoming isn’t for everyone. Some guys have trouble taking dick, usually because their hole will cramp up. So if you’re one of those guys, you may be best off topping or even avoiding anal sex altogether.

Having said that, bottoming can and should feel awesome! If you’ve ever played with your hole, imagine that except way more intense. I also love the sheer intimacy of feeling a man’s anatomy inside me.

Best of all is if he hits your prostate. It’s basically the male G-spot, so it can make you cum hands-free, and it can give you feelings of pleasure you never imagined!
 

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For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
 

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For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
Perfect description! Gets me hard just thinking about it…!
 

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For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
Very well put. It can be very emotional too when you are bottoming. I have cried but tears of happiness when he cums in me. I've also said some very private things as well when I am bottoming. Very vulnerable--in more ways than one!!
 

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If anal sex is painful, it's either not enough foreplay by your partner in preparing for preparation or not enough lube (or you have a medical condition like haemorrhoids).

The problem with some tops are they learn how to fuck from porn. The problem with porn is that they've edited out all the prep work.

So to sum up, either increase communication or find another partner.
 

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If anal sex is painful, it's either not enough foreplay by your partner in preparing for preparation or not enough lube (or you have a medical condition like haemorrhoids).

The problem with some tops are they learn how to fuck from porn. The problem with porn is that they've edited out all the prep work.

So to sum up, either increase communication or find another partner.
That part!
 

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For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
Got so fucking hard reading this, especially the milking dry part. Fuck I hope to experience this one day.
 

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I want to add that there is a middle way too. The posts above mention either pain or pure pleasure, of course a middle way exists as well.
For some anal can feel Just "okay", (meaning not hurting nur also not overly sensational) and he thrill of it is just in your head.

I read in some threads here, that sex happens mostly in our heads, i think that is especially true for anal. If you expect to orgasm instantly you will be disappointed. On the other hand, if you worry about it hurting constantly, you will probably not enjoy it.

And of course shape, size and skill of your partner play a huge role too.
 

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Feeling a guy's hard erect penis slide into my ass always, always, always, sends my Pleasure circuits into overdrive. Physically i can feel the stimulation as he penetrates me and thrusts his cock in and out of my ass, hitting my prostate repeatedly in the process. Intellectually, I know I am giving him--one of the many thousands of partners I have been with and am now adding to-- the pleasure stimulation he needs to unload his nut juice in my ass and go away satisfied. That said, how good it feel depends on what you are capable of accommodating. My own cock is too thick for many guys to take and it is uncomfortable for both of us. My own ass can take anything so I attract a lot of horsehung guys who want an ass they can really cut loose and power plow. Each thrust brings with it the feeling of something sling up my rectum and into my colon--a pleasurable fullness and the cock head hits my prostate going in and the cock shaft pushes and slides against it, giving more pleasure waves over my body. If you want to train to accommodate bigger, I recommend inflatable butt plugs and dildoes from Mr. S Leather.
 

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Feeling a guy's hard erect penis slide into my ass always, always, always, sends my Pleasure circuits into overdrive. Physically i can feel the stimulation as he penetrates me and thrusts his cock in and out of my ass, hitting my prostate repeatedly in the process. Intellectually, I know I am giving him--one of the many thousands of partners I have been with and am now adding to-- the pleasure stimulation he needs to unload his nut juice in my ass and go away satisfied. That said, how good it feel depends on what you are capable of accommodating. My own cock is too thick for many guys to take and it is uncomfortable for both of us. My own ass can take anything so I attract a lot of horsehung guys who want an ass they can really cut loose and power plow. Each thrust brings with it the feeling of something sling up my rectum and into my colon--a pleasurable fullness and the cock head hits my prostate going in and the cock shaft pushes and slides against it, giving more pleasure waves over my body. If you want to train to accommodate bigger, I recommend inflatable butt plugs and dildoes from Mr. S Leather.
Good advice about the plugs and dildos. I like my Bam dildo if you’ve ever seen.

Like you, I consider myself a power bottom and my cute lil bubble ass can take about any big cock up it.
 

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Good advice about the plugs and dildos. I like my Bam dildo if you’ve ever seen.

Like you, I consider myself a power bottom and my cute lil bubble ass can take about any big cock up it.
I am familiar with Bam. My starting play toy is 12 inches x 8.5 inches circumference and goes up from there. All my toys but 2 are L and XL Bad-Dragon and TwistedBeast.
 
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It feels absolutely mind blowing.. WHEN YOU'RE BROKEN IN AND READY.

My first time was awful. Most painful thing I'd ever tried to do. You have to WANT IT, bad. You have to keep on trying and not get discouraged in the face of pain, mistakes and learning. LEARN about cleaning out. I never, ever attempt trying if not clean. Anal is way hot but in not the mud.. Learn your hole can take it even if at first it feels like you never can. Your hole can stretch and a LOT. I met a guy with 6.5" of GIRTH and even though I wanted him I was deathly afraid to try. The first time was a charm and I don't know why. I wanted his large Daddy cock so bad and when he penetrated my rectum it simply opened up and lovingly accepted his huge tool. I haven't been the same since. I hit him up now on a regular basis waiting for nothing more than the second he pops it in.

So, keep trying, allow for plenty of bad tries, know your hole will acclimate, learn the value of not only internal lube but absolute lubrication of the hole itself, rather, the TIGHT sphincter muscle. To me that is what's most painful, a dry sphincter.

When you get there you'll know. It feels wonderful having your gut full of a guy's cock, having it opened and stretched so wide.
 

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I think much of the pain of anal is enhanced by the mind -the psychological barrier. Sometimes, the "fear" that it is going to hurt makes us tense up and the sphincter muscles will contract, making any penetration hurt. I have experienced pain from very average dicks, because I was psychologically anticipating the pain. However, my ex and my fuck buddy both have very large dicks ( length and girth) that get rock hard and my ass eagerly devours them in one sitting. If you want to receive the pleasure of anal intercourse, complete with mind-blowing prostate stimulation, the first rule is RELAX!
 

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If I counted the minutes each week, I would say I would use my hole for sex more than anything else for most of my adult life.

It just becomes normal. Second nature. For those who find anal sex difficult, it's just a matter of practice and a persistence to learn how to do it properly, or what works for you. It's a skill in same way as riding a bike or learning to drive.

I feel sorry for people who say they tried it once and never again.