As a bottom. I would like to know this too. In my experience, it's always hurt taking a dick cause guys are always in a rush. Along with not knowing how to use lube.Does it hurt when he pounds it?
It shouldn’t! Or at least, it shouldn’t hurt in a bad way.Does it hurt when he pounds it?
Perfect description! Gets me hard just thinking about it…!For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
Very well put. It can be very emotional too when you are bottoming. I have cried but tears of happiness when he cums in me. I've also said some very private things as well when I am bottoming. Very vulnerable--in more ways than one!!For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
That part!If anal sex is painful, it's either not enough foreplay by your partner in preparing for preparation or not enough lube (or you have a medical condition like haemorrhoids).
The problem with some tops are they learn how to fuck from porn. The problem with porn is that they've edited out all the prep work.
So to sum up, either increase communication or find another partner.
Got so fucking hard reading this, especially the milking dry part. Fuck I hope to experience this one day.For me, the very first excitement is, as I am sucking his dick, to feel his hand move down to my ass and start to finger my hole. Then I know it's going to happen. If he's very big, I prefer sitting on it to get used to the size. If he's a comfortable size, I like to get it from behind. Being down on all fours with my ass up fills me with anticipation and my heart starts beating, especially after I have had a hit of poppers to help my hole relax. The initial sensation totally depends on the top. Some are very gentle with their insertion; others just want to put it in. My hole is very tight, so there is a little pain at the insertion. If it hurts too much, I pull forward, rest a few seconds, and re-insert. Then, the pain is gone. I think the psychological effect of getting fucked cannot be dismissed. It's like I'm transported to a different world, filled with ultimate pleasure. As the strokes get harder and the prostate is stimulated, waves of sensation overcome me and I really start to feel a warmth that must be experienced to understand. I also like it if the top starts talking dirty to me; I will respond. There's just something forbidden about the whole thing, which appeals to me. As the thrusts get harder, it stops hurting and I just have to put my head in the pillow and scream. If we cannot be heard by anybody, I will just scream without putting my head in the pillow or biting the sheets. The orgasm is something that can be felt, as the top's penis throbs and I can feel the cumming. Orgasm is the moment when a man is the most vulnerable. I will make a conscious effort to contract my hole muscles in order to milk him dry. They always like that. The intimacy is what I love. It doesn't hurt at all if you are prepared and psychologically ready for the experience.
Good advice about the plugs and dildos. I like my Bam dildo if you’ve ever seen.Feeling a guy's hard erect penis slide into my ass always, always, always, sends my Pleasure circuits into overdrive. Physically i can feel the stimulation as he penetrates me and thrusts his cock in and out of my ass, hitting my prostate repeatedly in the process. Intellectually, I know I am giving him--one of the many thousands of partners I have been with and am now adding to-- the pleasure stimulation he needs to unload his nut juice in my ass and go away satisfied. That said, how good it feel depends on what you are capable of accommodating. My own cock is too thick for many guys to take and it is uncomfortable for both of us. My own ass can take anything so I attract a lot of horsehung guys who want an ass they can really cut loose and power plow. Each thrust brings with it the feeling of something sling up my rectum and into my colon--a pleasurable fullness and the cock head hits my prostate going in and the cock shaft pushes and slides against it, giving more pleasure waves over my body. If you want to train to accommodate bigger, I recommend inflatable butt plugs and dildoes from Mr. S Leather.
I am familiar with Bam. My starting play toy is 12 inches x 8.5 inches circumference and goes up from there. All my toys but 2 are L and XL Bad-Dragon and TwistedBeast.Good advice about the plugs and dildos. I like my Bam dildo if you’ve ever seen.
Like you, I consider myself a power bottom and my cute lil bubble ass can take about any big cock up it.