Do you all find it degrading, emasculating, and feminizing to sit to pee? How many of you sit instead of use urinals? Do you do this on your own, or has someone forced or asked you to?
I've done this since I moved in with my partner, who's now my wife. The first week we lived together she complained that there was pee on the toilet seat, and told me this had better not be something that happens again. It happened again, and she marched me into the bathroom and lectured me about it and explained that if I can't piss without making a mess I will have to sit when I pee. Needless to say within the week I was dragged into the bathroom again and made to clean up my pee from the toilet seat. This time was the last time, third strike, and I was told in no uncertain terms that from now on we sit to pee in our house now. It took a while to get used to, and I got told off a few times when she caught me standing, now it's second nature and I sit all the time out of habit.Do you all find it degrading, emasculating, and feminizing to sit to pee? How many of you sit instead of use urinals? Do you do this on your own, or has someone forced or asked you to?
So even in public you sit to pee? Some bathrooms are nasty. Men are messy they owe on the seat or on the floor etc. Do you find it sometimes disgusting or humiliating to always have to do this?I've done this since I moved in with my partner, who's now my wife. The first week we lived together she complained that there was pee on the toilet seat, and told me this had better not be something that happens again. It happened again, and she marched me into the bathroom and lectured me about it and explained that if I can't piss without making a mess I will have to sit when I pee. Needless to say within the week I was dragged into the bathroom again and made to clean up my pee from the toilet seat. This time was the last time, third strike, and I was told in no uncertain terms that from now on we sit to pee in our house now. It took a while to get used to, and I got told off a few times when she caught me standing, now it's second nature and I sit all the time out of habit.
Yes I do even in public, I always use the stalls and sit, I haven't used a urinal in almost 7 years now. I actually feel a little too worried that I will accidentally pee on myself now, as it's been so long, so I don't risk it. I often have to wipe down a toilet seat in public restrooms. It is nasty, and I do feel a bit humiliated doing this, but it's gotten so ingrained in me now I don't even think about it. It's just how I do things now, because that's how my wife wants it.So even in public you sit to pee? Some bathrooms are nasty. Men are messy they owe on the seat or on the floor etc. Do you find it sometimes disgusting or humiliating to always have to do this?
It is kind of huge isn't it!You are so big though. How is it better for you to sit? I don’t see how you could be embarrassed with that thing
Did your wife want you to sit?Nowadays I sit to pee. Why? Because I clean the toilet.
In public bathrooms I will generally stand to avoid what is likely a foul seat...
But partly because of my large gauge PA, standing to pee is always a risk of some errant and unpredictably divergent stream that MIGHT splatter my pants leg...
I don't find it any more or less emasculating than sitting to shit. I don't know why any guy would.
when I was a young man, my wife complained about me and our two sons peeing all over the seat... but she relented that it was unreasonable to expect of couple of little boys who were only recently potty trained to always remember to lift the seat-
and even when they did, they often forgot to put it back down and the wife apparently was incapable of learning to CHECK if the seat was down or not.
But we had 2 bathrooms... so the solution was easy- the master bathroom was a Seat always DOWN toilet... and I just sat when i used it. The other bathroom was a seat always UP toilet- and the boys exclusively used that one- If I used that one, I stood.
Did your wife want you to sit?
I totally agree with all that. My wife really knows how to make me feel small and humiliated, so she got me to change my ways. I did see pretty quickly though that her way was actually the better way and the toilet was always clean.that wasn't her big concern. what she wanted was to A. NOT sit on seats that had piss on them ( so LIFT UP THE SEAT )
and B. NOT fall in the toilet because someone left the seat up. ( so put the seat back down )
I pointed out numerous times that I had fallen in the toilet myself- ONE TIME- and thereafter I learned to watch out for my own ass... but that did not cut any ice with her. She felt entitled to backing up to a toilet with nary so much as a glance to assess its condition...
I was saved by the fact that with two little boys in the house she could not validly claim it was ME who was leaving the seat up.
( I have NEVER stood to piss with the seat down- i mean, what kind of animal does such a thing?)
So we did the Shroedinger's toilet thing with the seat in both a quantum Up and a Down state- only determined by which bathroom you waled into.
In later relationships- I was again confronted with the falling in conundrum- and rather than fight over it, I simply started sitting down all the time.
But what really sold me was having to clean the toilet- even tho i never pissed on the seat- because i lifted the thing up - standing and pissing at a toilet is messier, It gets on the rim, sure, but even when your aim is unerring, it splashes and spatters and pissy water droplets land all over the place outside the toilet, on the floor, etc.
And frankly, life is just too short to waste my time trying to scrub dried and stinking piss stains all around the toilet on my hands and knees.
Sit down to piss... and all you have to clean is the inside of the bowl.
I totally agree with all that. My wife really knows how to make me feel small and humiliated, so she got me to change my ways. I did see pretty quickly though that her way was actually the better way and the toilet was always clean.
Apparently she has told her friends about it and one of them has made there husband sit now too.
I'm not sure why it's not a more common thing for men to do
We kind of both get off on her humiliating me, it is also just how she dels with things. This though she did take seriously, and our apartment only has one bathroomwell, no one can make me feel small and humiliated. And Its sad when women feel that is the way to address something with a man. All it takes for me is a reasonable argument. Its reasonable if a woman is saying she doesn't like cleaning up your mess.
it even more reasonable to just have a GUY's only toilet that the GUY has to clean up- Any guy with half a brain would quickly come to the same conclusion I did.
oh, well, if its part of your role play, then sure.We kind of both get off on her humiliating me, it is also just how she dels with things. This though she did take seriously, and our apartment only has one bathroom
Nowadays I sit to pee. Why? Because I clean the toilet.
In public bathrooms I will generally stand to avoid what is likely a foul seat...
But partly because of my large gauge PA, standing to pee is always a risk of some errant and unpredictably divergent stream that MIGHT splatter my pants leg...
I don't find it any more or less emasculating than sitting to shit. I don't know why any guy would.
when I was a young man, my wife complained about me and our two sons peeing all over the seat... but she relented that it was unreasonable to expect of couple of little boys who were only recently potty trained to always remember to lift the seat-
and even when they did, they often forgot to put it back down and the wife apparently was incapable of learning to CHECK if the seat was down or not.
But we had 2 bathrooms... so the solution was easy- the master bathroom was a Seat always DOWN toilet... and I just sat when i used it. The other bathroom was a seat always UP toilet- and the boys exclusively used that one- If I used that one, I stood.