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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by earllogjam, Nov 13, 2007.
Ever have this fantasy? Ever do it in real life? What about it gets you off?
How did you start?
I've been the dominant top in this scene! What can I say... fun way to fill a void in a weekend!
Yeah! A fantasy? Yes, with you, man! :wink:
I just had to make that comment, however, I'll think about it some more and post an answer later.
I'm fantasized about it on occasion, yes. I'm a switch and it's one of my more submissive thoughts, but I coldn't give you entirely specific reasons as to why such activities interest me.
I'm getting Bliss a set of ropes, dog collar, leash, whip, paddle and strap-on to use on me for Christmas.
Shhh, don't tell her.
yeah.. been a fantasy of mine too...
I love the idea of the restraints holding me in place, giving me something to flex my body & muscles against.
I'd be happy to have my body played with - just not to the point of pain - and have my ass explored until I shoot a huge load that leaves me exhausted and drained.
I did something kind of like this once, some of the components were there but the dom/top wsa... rather compassionate. Good, I guess -better than him being an asshole, but consequently he didn't get as close to the 'edge' of my comfort zome as i might have liked.
It was still hella-fun, but he wanted to cuddle afterwards.. oddly enough,that was the part that weirded me out.
That is not precisely my fantasy, but it is similar! Mine involves wrestling with a hung, dark complected stud who overpowers me and first gags me with his manhood and then drains me of cum while raping me. It started , I believe , after watching some porn videos of super hung dark complected studs! In real life I was more inclined to be the seducer and yes, I played that role several times!:tongue:
Haha, yeah, you and every other bottom boy on the planet! It's kinda funny, so often a guy starts telling me his fantasy, and after the first two words, I just about have it memorized to the point of reciting it with him.
If I had a nickel for every sub who has told me "My fantasy is to be abducted, restrained, and gang-banged by 10 hot studs" I would have out-bid Rob E for LPSG - and I'd have money left over.
I have had the pleasure of playing in scenes like this. I was the sub, and I was restrained on a rack, and could not move my legs, thighs or arms. I was gagged with a ball gag and I was also blindfolded. I had a cockring put on me and vibrating clips to my nipples, I had a cock head vibrator on my penis and my balls in a vice. I was made to endure endless cock pleasure and made to cum over and over and over again, until I literally had no cum left in me, just dry orgasms. I was flipped over and flogged, was sodomized with dildo's of various size and lentgh, some vibrating some not. I was fucked over and over by the four guys I was with until I could not feel my ass anymore. It was fun, and I've only done this a few times since I am a usually a top and not a bottom.
I've done this to male partners!!(but they had to beg and kiss the insteps of my feet first)
It is nice being a switch.
Bound, sodomized and drained of cum? Just another night at casa deTrigon, baby!
Ha, you only thought there were four of us. There were only three, but you didn't know that because you were blindfolded!
Nope; Nope; Nada; and never.
Haha. Sweet man
I would love to abused by some possesed chicks like this. Sounds very hot.
fuckin hot hot hot!
This is a huge fantasy for me but not for the reasons you might think.
I have this notion, perhaps an inference, that BDSM is way to complete release. To want, to enjoy a scene like this, one has to be able to surrender totally in both mind and body so as to cease any thought of control and, most importantly, any desire to control. In perfect submission we trust those who top completely, giving ourselves over bodily in the most extreme form of intimacy. It's my guess that to go through a scene like this is possibly one of the most liberating things someone can do. If ejaculation (though not necessarily orgasm) is withheld until the very end, it might just be a path to higher consciousness. It's when we no longer need control, need release, or need to be active that, I think, we might find greater spiritual understanding of ourselves.
I had a glimpse of that two weeks ago at the Body Electric's course, Celebrating the Body Erotic. For the very first time in my life I just let go of control and allowed someone to pleasure me. I'd like to get myself to believe I'm worth that kind of experience again. So far, all the other times I have sex I'm so busy worrying about the other person that I feel like a cruise director, not a passenger. I focus so much on the other person's enjoyment, possibly because of feelings of inferiority, that I don't just let it happen and enjoy it. I make sure the other person feels good, I make sure I'm doing everything just right, I make sure they come first, I make sure that I come at the very end so as not to keep the person too long. It's absurd now that I look at it.
So far in my life I've been a lousy bottom. It's not for want of trying either but I'm just too tense. There has been no partner I've trusted enough to truly relax myself and just let go of my inhibitions and defenses. I'm not even sure such I could bring myself to do it with someone I truly trusted. But I want to. I want to be able to offer myself to someone without reservation or hesitation to create a deeper sense of intimacy and enjoy the act while it takes place.
At the end of this week I'm going to another Body Electric course, Power, Submission, and Intimacy. It's basically a course in training yourself to do just such a thing via BDSM techniques. This should help me break through the intimacy barrier and, perhaps, help me overcome my hang-ups.
All during my course prep work I've been reading books on BDSM and it's nothing like what I thought it was.
As would I, my aquatic friend--chained to a pillar with my representative down some chica's throat! Yes! If I had that kind of action here, I wouldn't have time to post a damned thing.
Just poking a little fun at myself with that casa deTrigon remark.
DC, there must be something in you that attracts all these hot boys to confess their SM fantasies to you. It doesn't usually get brought up in my causual conversations with any bottom boys.
I guess I owe you a nickle.
Some bondage, 4 point tie down. take advantage :wink:
ever have this fantasy? i do as a top.
ever do it in real life? yes many different ways...but no sodomy.
what about it gets you off? the chemicals.
i love bdsm because it is a deeper release emotionally.
i usually need sex with my bdsm,but sometimes it is without.
when you are finished just to wrap her in a blanket
open the window with a candle lit, and listen to a new record
and be capable of enjoying the moment without thought.
to bind a woman frees her soul.
that is an old japanese saying about kinbaku.