I read an 'advice' / 'agony aunt' column today it went a lil somethin like this: "My girlfriend always points out other guys when we are out. She says "ooh isn't he hot", "look at him", etc. When she is out with her girlfriends she dances with other men. When I am alone I don't look at another girl and would never dance with one on a night out." The agony aunt basically said that the guy was insecure and needs to sort out his own insecurities. On the other hand, I thought the guy was right to feel that way and that his girlfriend has crossed the line. How would you feel about that sort of situation? Been in it yourself? I have. I also wanted to ask what sort of boundaries you have eg what is okay and what is not with regards to your partner and members of the 'attracted' sex. For example is it okay for your partner to see their ex/s?