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I've previously made a thread detailing how my boyfriend wanted to experience other guys to get rid of the numbness he has towards everything. This is more about asking how to deal with this?
My boyfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me because he has been feeling extremely numb. He loves me I know he does, but says that he feels nothing with the relationship, life, school, etc. He goes through a lot of depressive episodes and they've been getting worse. After arguing a lot over this and him crawling back to me when he wants me because he becomes un-numb and feels for me again and I let him. But this time officially we called it quits. The problem is we both live together due to covid reasons and have to manage together as just roommates now. We have been crying together nonstop which is probably unhealthy to do but we really do love each other. He says he has to break up with me not out of wanting to break up as he claims. I don't know what to do? How do I get him back? I really don't want to move on. We were so good together but numbness corrupted his perspective of us. Do I stay hopeful that we could end up back together? As bad as that is. Does anyone have experience with this situation? either being in my shoes or his numb shoes. I want him back so badly, deep down he does too.
Thanks
My boyfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me because he has been feeling extremely numb. He loves me I know he does, but says that he feels nothing with the relationship, life, school, etc. He goes through a lot of depressive episodes and they've been getting worse. After arguing a lot over this and him crawling back to me when he wants me because he becomes un-numb and feels for me again and I let him. But this time officially we called it quits. The problem is we both live together due to covid reasons and have to manage together as just roommates now. We have been crying together nonstop which is probably unhealthy to do but we really do love each other. He says he has to break up with me not out of wanting to break up as he claims. I don't know what to do? How do I get him back? I really don't want to move on. We were so good together but numbness corrupted his perspective of us. Do I stay hopeful that we could end up back together? As bad as that is. Does anyone have experience with this situation? either being in my shoes or his numb shoes. I want him back so badly, deep down he does too.
Thanks