Boyfriend Has A Large Penis, I Need Some Advice

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I am dating this really nice guy for about a month. We get along very well and have so much fun together, he is kind and funny and he really likes me too. We really want to be together as a couple but our problem is that he has a very large penis, so large that no matter how many times we tried, we could not have actual sex.
We spend hours on kissing and cuddling and oral sex but when we try anal, i find it really painful to be penetrated. We of course use condoms(he uses Large size) and lot's of lube, the third time we tried, he did penetrate me, not fully, but it happened, i couldn't take it for too long though. Do you think by keep trying we will be able to make it? It's the thickness of his penis that cause the problem i think.
He is a great guy and we have no other problems together except the sex part. Do you have any tips on how are we going to make it work?
 
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I am dating this really nice guy for about a month. We get along very well and have so much fun together, he is kind and funny and he really likes me too. We really want to be together as a couple but our problem is that he has a very large penis, so large that no matter how many times we tried, we could not have actual sex.
We spend hours on kissing and cuddling and oral sex but when we try anal, i find it really painful to be penetrated. We of course use condoms(he uses Large size) and lot's of lube, the third time we tried, he did penetrate me, not fully, but it happened, i couldn't take it for too long though. Do you think by keep trying we will be able to make it? It's the thickness of his penis that cause the problem i think.
He is a great guy and we have no other problems together except the sex part. Do you have any tips on how are we going to make it work?
In one word, perseverance. Firstly, feel blessed you have a boyfriend with a big dick. Big dicks in tight holes make for great ejaculations. In time, you will learn to accommodate him and it will give you enormous pleasure. I speak from experience.
 

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My first question, how often have you bottomed before? Is it just the girth itself?

My suggestion would be to get on top of him and ease your way onto it. That way you can control the amount of cock that you take.

The biggest question you should be asking is do you want his cock in your ass? If so take it slow. The pain should subside if you'll take it slowly.
 

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My first question, how often have you bottomed before? Is it just the girth itself?

My suggestion would be to get on top of him and ease your way onto it. That way you can control the amount of cock that you take.

The biggest question you should be asking is do you want his cock in your ass? If so take it slow. The pain should subside if you'll take it slowly.

i am not an experienced bottom, i must really really like to allow him penetrate me plus most guys i really liked and wanted to penetrate me had medium/small penises anyway
 

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i am not an experienced bottom, i must really really like to allow him penetrate me plus most guys i really liked and wanted to penetrate me had medium/small penises anyway


Then hop on top of him and you'll control what you get. Just use plenty of lube and go slow. Once you've got some of it in just hold it until your ready to move down a little further.
 

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I know from experience that some guys need toys or to be fingered to loosen up while others just need a good tongue fuck and they’re ready to go. It’s gonna hurt but go slow. Have him insert slowly and stop when you need him to and when he’s balls deep just have him stay there and make out. I usually whisper something naughty in their ears like “look at how well that tight hole took my fat dick” or some shit like that. Then try flexing your hole, squeezing his dick. He may soften up a bit which will make it easier to take him. Then just have him pull out a bit and gently slide back in. Doesn’t even have to be an inch but just enough for you to start getting used to the feeling. Oh and I know this sounds weird but push out a little too ... it relaxes your hole. Hope that helps ... if not I can come over and show you two ;)
 

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They do sell anal training kits that you may find work for you. I haven't purchased one myself but I'm considering it since my boyfriend has a pretty big dick and I'm very inexperienced when it comes to bottoming. I top 100% of the time right now but I've kind of been craving his cock in my ass lately so I think that's what I'm going to do to prepare for it.
 
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They do sell anal training kits that you may find work for you. I haven't purchased one myself but I'm considering it since my boyfriend has a pretty big dick and I'm very inexperienced when it comes to bottoming. I top 100% of the time right now but I've kind of been craving his cock in my ass lately so I think that's what I'm going to do to prepare for it.
I love topping tops haha kind of an oxymoron but I like a top that’s confident and wants to bottom for someone he trust
 

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Not gay or bi but since i haven't seen anyone expressly say it. Maybe you could try a donut? Don't know how to help with girth but a dick donut seems like a good idea to me when it comes to length.