Boyfriend Has Trouble With My Size

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My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life, and always have. Most of the time, I am the bottom, which I absolutely love. However, I still like topping, which he finds difficult, especially due to my significant girth. Is there any way I can help make him more comfortable? We've tried relaxation techniques, fingering (any kind of warming up, for that matter), taking hot showers before hand, etc. Any suggestions?
 
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Nothing will ever work..if your partner isn’t comfortable with your size then that’s it.

I’ve lost relationships due to it and my wife still doesn’t tolerate it well..
 
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Nothing will ever work..if your partner isn’t comfortable with your size then that’s it.

I’ve lost relationships due to it and my wife still doesn’t tolerate it well..
Well it may be different with women. My questions is with respect to man on man, particularly with the anus.
 
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You know women can take it in the ass too..my post wasn’t exclusive to pussy
I wouldn't know. But women are temperamentally different from men. Thank you for the comment, but I don't believe it helps my particular situation.
 

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Fisther 69 said: "...You know women can take it in the ass too..."

My gf doesn't enjoy anal with me. She says I'm too thick (yes, we've tried toys &c to get her "used to it")... which is exactly what she most enjoys about penis-vaginal sex. I've never heard a guy complain that I'm too thick. Enjoy what sex you can enjoy with individuals.
 

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My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life, and always have. Most of the time, I am the bottom, which I absolutely love. However, I still like topping, which he finds difficult, especially due to my significant girth. Is there any way I can help make him more comfortable? We've tried relaxation techniques, fingering (any kind of warming up, for that matter), taking hot showers before hand, etc. Any suggestions?
If you don’t mind me asking, how thick are you? I’ve taken my fair share of girthy cocks
 
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If you don’t mind me asking, how thick are you? I’ve taken my fair share of girthy cocks
5" around. And I have lovely news: my boyfriend initiated sex this morning, and we made love with me on top. It was absolutely wonderful. I really did him sweet, he moaned and writhed in pleasure the whole time. I even made him cum! Apparently butt plugs are a wonderful tool.
 
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5" around. And I have lovely news: my boyfriend initiated sex this morning, and we made love with me on top. It was absolutely wonderful. I really did him sweet, he moaned and writhed in pleasure the whole time. I even made him cum! Apparently butt plugs are a wonderful tool.
And then he did me in the car, and again when we got home. ☺️
 
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