Red_Beauty: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months, but we have problems. My boyfriend is 7" long and 6.5" girth. The length is no problem, but the girth kills me. I've been with large guys before, and they always caused pain, too. However, when I'm with a smaller guy, I'm fine. I can have sex all I want. I asked my gyn about this, and she stated that I'm relatively small down there. We've tried lubricants and long foreplay, but nothing seems to work for me. This has started to become a psychological problem, too. I no longer have the desire to have sex with him at all due to the pain that happens occurs. I love him very much, so I've stayed with him longer than I can sexually tolerate. I'm not sure what to do anymore. I love him, but I don't love his penis. Any suggestions?