Cable_Guy: Well, of course 17"...I'm not used to feeling humbled in this area, but hmmmm...whoa.
But seriously, I agree with the guy who recommended copious foreplay. I generally eat my girlfriend for a long while before attempting to insert...the added blood rush to her pussy has an effect, which I think may be due to the oxygenated blood, although that's a theory - I do know that lack of blood can cause a lot of pain and hypersensitivity, so I do recommend lengthy cunnilingus (what could be better?)
...and very often, she'll get me off orally beforehand, too. That helps me relax a bit and doesn't compromise my erection.
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But seriously, I agree with the guy who recommended copious foreplay. I generally eat my girlfriend for a long while before attempting to insert...the added blood rush to her pussy has an effect, which I think may be due to the oxygenated blood, although that's a theory - I do know that lack of blood can cause a lot of pain and hypersensitivity, so I do recommend lengthy cunnilingus (what could be better?)
...and very often, she'll get me off orally beforehand, too. That helps me relax a bit and doesn't compromise my erection.Cable Guy
10 x 7.5
beckyinfl: Thanks for asking. Things are going better. I dont' think I will ever be able to take it all, but I can take most. And we do other things when I'm not in the mood for sex. Thanks for everyone's advice.
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beckyinfl: What kind of technology made it possible? Hmmm.. only the most modern of technological marvels. Sorry, I just found that question funny. As I mentioned in my original post, I had been with large guys before and am large enough "down there" to do OK. So I think it was a question of just getting more used to it and relaxing. I don't exactly know how much I have taken. It's not my first impulse while having sex to grab a ruler and go measure. But a couple of times I remember thinking where the hell is that going? lol.. well into double digits and then some probably.
Thanks for all the interest.
Becky
Thanks for all the interest.
Becky
mr17yearold: if you had taken 8 or 9 inches of him... from the begining of your relationship, why did you claim to be having trouble having sex with him.... most women cant fit more than 6 or 7" in them right???
beckyinfl: True, I suppose. I just meant with my original post that taking a lot of him was difficult. I have slowly learned to take most, so I'm doing better. But any advice, particularly from other women, is appreciated.
Becky
Becky
sammygirly: Becky, honestly us women are just sitting here with our jaws hanging open, totally speachless as to how to help. If you're taking 6-7" now I'd say you're doing all you can!
Only thing I can offer is to maybe find a position where he can enter you and you can still wrap a slick hand around the more than half that's remaining...make your hand an extension of your vagina of a sorts....
...ooOOOOooo Nony!! Marketing - vagina extension...they have penile extensions....
Only thing I can offer is to maybe find a position where he can enter you and you can still wrap a slick hand around the more than half that's remaining...make your hand an extension of your vagina of a sorts....
...ooOOOOooo Nony!! Marketing - vagina extension...they have penile extensions....
AnonyMs: Girl, we are gonna get rich yet - while making such significant contributions to humankind.... I am getting a tear in my eye.... sniff!
beckyinfl: Sammy, I had to laugh at your post a bit.. sitting here opened mouthed. That's sort of how I was when I first saw it. Anyway, I can take a lot more than 6-7 now. That was when we first started having sex. I had been with big guys before and was able to take that much pretty quickly.
I think I said in one of my last posts that I was now able to take most of it, which is a lot! lol.. so I am doing better. I guess the advice has helped, but still any thoughts on the issue or the other topic that I posted about cervical penetration would be helpful.
Becky
I think I said in one of my last posts that I was now able to take most of it, which is a lot! lol.. so I am doing better. I guess the advice has helped, but still any thoughts on the issue or the other topic that I posted about cervical penetration would be helpful.
Becky
beckyinfl: Hey, people. I rarely come here anymore, so I wanted to say a quick hello on my original post topic. All your advice helped, but I think the best advice to getting used to size is just to relax and get used to it over time. And sometimes it takes a long time!
I'm able to deal with it better than before, but I'll never be an expert...lol. I would be slightly scared if I was an expert as that would mean I probably would never be able to enjoy sex with a regular sized guy again and would be doing some serious rearrangement of internal organs. Sorry if that is graphic, but it's the truth.
Anyway, bye for now.
Becky.
I'm able to deal with it better than before, but I'll never be an expert...lol. I would be slightly scared if I was an expert as that would mean I probably would never be able to enjoy sex with a regular sized guy again and would be doing some serious rearrangement of internal organs. Sorry if that is graphic, but it's the truth.
Anyway, bye for now.
Becky.
WOW, if he has 17", he should be in porn or sideshow. I don't think that is an acurate measurement. Long Dong Silver had a fake penis, John Homes was not 14" and his ego must be way out there! Sorry, but I just had to say that. As long as you are relaxed(have a few orgasms 1st before you try to put it in) you can take almost any size cock. Like they say, "It'll stretch a mile before it'll tear an inch". Your size has little to do with how muck cock you can take. My girlfriend is only 4'11" and she can take 10+ to the balls with the proper motivation.SensuousCancer: Becky,
I've never had one that big, the biggest was 13" and that was just oral in any case.
I got through most of the posts so sorry if this has been said already... My lover is 10" and pretty thick but there is a way that he likes to fuck that I suppose he has found out over the years. It's missionary with my legs closed and his outside of mine so that his dick is between my lubricated thighs and then into pussy.
I'd have to verify this with him but, I assume that it gives him the sensation of a full embrace.
I've never had one that big, the biggest was 13" and that was just oral in any case.
I got through most of the posts so sorry if this has been said already... My lover is 10" and pretty thick but there is a way that he likes to fuck that I suppose he has found out over the years. It's missionary with my legs closed and his outside of mine so that his dick is between my lubricated thighs and then into pussy.
I'd have to verify this with him but, I assume that it gives him the sensation of a full embrace.
- Max,
[quote author=SensuousCancer link=board=sex;num=1044907676;start=40#54 date=07/21/03 at 21:17:34]It's missionary with my legs closed and his outside of mine so that his dick is between my lubricated thighs and then into pussy.
I'd have to verify this with him but, I assume that it gives him the sensation of a full embrace.
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That works well for us too. And yes, it feels (almost) as if I am all the way inside. Although I still find I have to be restrained ... no doubt your partner does too.
I'd have to verify this with him but, I assume that it gives him the sensation of a full embrace.
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That works well for us too. And yes, it feels (almost) as if I am all the way inside. Although I still find I have to be restrained ... no doubt your partner does too.
SensuousCancer: No, he doesn't have to be restrained really but when he does it that way it's usually soft and slow. He is large enough that he has actually done anal that way... from the front... with my legs closed!
Might be unusual but when we're together it almost ALWYAS includes anal. It's usually the reverse of missionary, laying on my stomach, with his legs outside mine and he can, and does, pound it. There is nothing like the feeling of closeness to be enfolded by him, body over mine, legs holding mine together, holding my hands with fingers entwined, kissing and sucking on my neck. All that combined with the intimacy of anal is wonderful. His size may be hard to take but it's worth it.
Might be unusual but when we're together it almost ALWYAS includes anal. It's usually the reverse of missionary, laying on my stomach, with his legs outside mine and he can, and does, pound it. There is nothing like the feeling of closeness to be enfolded by him, body over mine, legs holding mine together, holding my hands with fingers entwined, kissing and sucking on my neck. All that combined with the intimacy of anal is wonderful. His size may be hard to take but it's worth it.
gigantikok: ive mentioned this before, but you guys that are too long can buy rubber stoppers to help take away the fear of thrusting too far in. I know you can find a stopper to put on your shaft that keeps too much of the penis from entering and banging the cervix.
look9989: This may sound weird, but the first time I hit my girlfriend Gail's cervix is was quite painful...for ME, that is! The head of my cock felt like it was thrust against a very hard, very sharp object! Gail, for her part, said she liked the pain, but I found it uncomfortable. So later, I usually didn't penetrate as far. She was more into oral anyway, and despite her tiny mouth, could take a LOT!!!
Donk: [quote author=look9989 link=board=sex;num=1044907676;start=40#58 date=07/23/03 at 15:39:31]This may sound weird, but the first time I hit my girlfriend Gail's cervix is was quite painful...for ME, that is! [/quote]
This isn't that weird. My gf actually likes me to hit her cervix (at least she says she does). I don't exactly experience "pain" when I bottom out, but often what I would characterize as discomfort. It's like my penis is being "squished" in a way that crosses the line from pleasurable to uncomfortable and it will start to buckle a bit if I try to press further when I am already hitting the end of the road. It is easy to see how this could translate into actual pain if I slammed into it too hard without being mindful of my length and depth into her. Imagine taking your erect penis and just thrusting the head of it into a wall. No surprise if it's painful!
This isn't that weird. My gf actually likes me to hit her cervix (at least she says she does). I don't exactly experience "pain" when I bottom out, but often what I would characterize as discomfort. It's like my penis is being "squished" in a way that crosses the line from pleasurable to uncomfortable and it will start to buckle a bit if I try to press further when I am already hitting the end of the road. It is easy to see how this could translate into actual pain if I slammed into it too hard without being mindful of my length and depth into her. Imagine taking your erect penis and just thrusting the head of it into a wall. No surprise if it's painful!
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