SwissGermanBoi: Let me begin by saying, I've been on this site for a long time on another name but didn't post that much and now I forgot my old name and created a new one becuase I had a problem and remembered I could get help here... My boyfriend is a year older than me and has more expirence in anal sex then I do, but one of his last boyfriends was realy rough with him and ripped his ass ( ) and after a while it healed, but he said it healed tighter than it was before. So, now when I try to f*ck him, it hurts him really badly becuase I'm really thick. I've only done it to him once becuase it hurts him so much. How Can I loosen him up without hurting him alot. Becuae in the mean time, I'm stuck being the bottom. And his c0ck is so long and thick, don't get me wrong, I can take it. It doesn't hurt that much becuase we've done it a lot (and I'm not saying I'm 'loose in the caboose' but it's just not a ripping pain like his is). So if you could help me out...Danke und Tschüß!