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Good afternoon LPSG'ers,
I've run into a weird predictament with my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years and he all of a sudden wants to have a threesome. I'm 23 years old and he's 24 years old, I'm the top he's the bottom.
I don't know why but it bugs me he brings it up four years later, that he'd be up for it and I don't know why. I think if it came up a few years ago Id be like HELL YEAH, but I don't know. I'm 5'11" with a medium amount of muscle mass and I have a good sized dick (eight inches long average thickness) but my boyfriend (who is the bottom) is 6'1" lean with an obnoxious cock (eight and half inches with ridiculous thickness) he's also much more financially stable than me now. And wherehes the defintion of a pretty boy, Im a little more rough looking with a shaved head.
I'm a normally very confident person but this boy has the power to make me feel inadequate. I get looks and interested people when we go out but he gets more than me no contest. Guys will buy him drinks all the time and its never bothered me. There is no question of infidelity ever occurring. He also initiated a talk about an open relationship bein a HUGE no no in his book. And the biggest thing is that a friend of his wanted to have a threesome with me back in college and he went so far to remove this guy from our lives.
I think what it boils down to is that he has calm down from the craziness we used to be and while he's done with college I am not. To rarely being in the mood for and then to bringing up a threesome just strikes me so odd.
Am I being stupid to feel like he's over me? We don't have as much sex now as we did when we were 20-22 where it was almost everyday and everywhere. I may be wrong but I feel like bringin in a third person is something you do when you've been with someone for ten+ years and your sex life is dying.
I'd love to hear what anyone has to say. I can't even believe its bothering me at all. I know the younger me always wanted this but never wanted to bring it up.
I've run into a weird predictament with my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years and he all of a sudden wants to have a threesome. I'm 23 years old and he's 24 years old, I'm the top he's the bottom.
I don't know why but it bugs me he brings it up four years later, that he'd be up for it and I don't know why. I think if it came up a few years ago Id be like HELL YEAH, but I don't know. I'm 5'11" with a medium amount of muscle mass and I have a good sized dick (eight inches long average thickness) but my boyfriend (who is the bottom) is 6'1" lean with an obnoxious cock (eight and half inches with ridiculous thickness) he's also much more financially stable than me now. And wherehes the defintion of a pretty boy, Im a little more rough looking with a shaved head.
I'm a normally very confident person but this boy has the power to make me feel inadequate. I get looks and interested people when we go out but he gets more than me no contest. Guys will buy him drinks all the time and its never bothered me. There is no question of infidelity ever occurring. He also initiated a talk about an open relationship bein a HUGE no no in his book. And the biggest thing is that a friend of his wanted to have a threesome with me back in college and he went so far to remove this guy from our lives.
I think what it boils down to is that he has calm down from the craziness we used to be and while he's done with college I am not. To rarely being in the mood for and then to bringing up a threesome just strikes me so odd.
Am I being stupid to feel like he's over me? We don't have as much sex now as we did when we were 20-22 where it was almost everyday and everywhere. I may be wrong but I feel like bringin in a third person is something you do when you've been with someone for ten+ years and your sex life is dying.
I'd love to hear what anyone has to say. I can't even believe its bothering me at all. I know the younger me always wanted this but never wanted to bring it up.