boyfriend watching porn.....

tray22nc

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That's true.

The only time I ever remember feeling hurt over his porn watching was when I started getting big when I was pregnant and the baby had begun to kick, which creeped TheBF out, and we were having less sex than ever. I think it was a weekend when we were both at home. I caught him in his office watching porn and masturbating, and instead of just asking if I could watch, too, I felt hurt and I pouted a little bit and I said, "You know that I'm just downstairs. You could come downstairs and have sex with me... if you wanted..." because I was being pitiful. He hugged me and was sympathetic and then he fucked me, and those three things made it all better.

You guys are so cute! :biggrin1:
 

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The key to discussing it with the boyfriend is to make sure that you're not confrontational about it -- if you are, you run a serious risk of causing him to close off more and throw up the defense mechanisms. Be inviting and you'll get a lot farther.
 

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Personally I could care less if my BF watches porn. Doesn't take anything away from me. For me porn does pretty much nothing but to each his own. If he lied about watching it - that would indeed be a big red flag. lying about anything is a big red flag (which I have been known to ignore and then pay the consequences of later...)