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I'll admit that mine definitely affected my trust in people. I still have an inherent distrust in men, and especially when one is around my two little boys.
sexycobra said:Stronzo, my feeling from reading your post is that this definitely constitutes abuse. Some forms of child abuse are perhaps less traumatic for the child than others are (it's obviously your case), but I don't think that the criteria for defining abuse should be whether the child felt pressured, threatened, repulsed or forced to do something he/she doesn't want to do.
My definition is: having sexual activities, of any kind, with an underage person constitutes abuse. Period. What's wrong is the adult using his/her power and authority over someone who is too young/not mature enough to understand what's happening and to object - from that viewpoint it is irrelevant whether the child actually suffers and is thereatened or not, although it goes without saying that some agressions are much more severe and traumatizing than others.
TexAssgirl said:I forgot to chime in on Stronzo's case...
I agree with Sexy too. While I also have a very best friend who's boys I would take care of and treat lovingly in a heartbeat, I find it odd that she took her time and I'd feel even more odd undressing in front of them at that age. I'm already having a hard time undressing in front of my 4 year old. And even though I would feel comfortable enough to wash all areas of them, I certainly would do the more private parts quickly....although at age 7 I would expect them to be able to do it on their own.
I guess we can only see things through the light of our own experience. I've had my share of negative experiences with women, most of them white and (upper) middle-class. Some of them straight up embarrassed me. These broads truly have a glitch in their motherfucking brain stem.TexAssgirl said:I still have an inherent distrust in men, and especially when one is around my two little boys.
Sure seems like it.naughty said:Lex,
What a nasty coward. He probably had homoerotic feelings himself and was projecting them on you a curious little boy. NO doubt that was a set up from jumpstreet.
Dr. Dilznick said:Slightly off-topic, have you ever noticed how closet gays make it a point to stay away from alcohol/drugs?
Quite the opposite. The self-hatred has nowhere to go and must be medicated.Dr. Dilznick said:Sure seems like it.
Slightly off-topic, have you ever noticed how closet gays make it a point to stay away from alcohol/drugs?
I meant in public. Wasn't Dr. Dre for the most part a pretty sober dude, like he admitted he didn't really smoke weed, probably because he'd probably relax and start talking some high-minded free love type shit. Remember that "I'm so drunk right now with Kurt Loder" bit? Anyone here who saw that shit knows what I'm talkin about.Sorcerer said:Quite the opposite. The self-hatred has nowhere to go and must be medicated.
TexAssgirl said:The average serial child molester has between 360-380 victims in his lifetime.