Breaking a size issue with any potential girlfriend

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Yeah, I hate seeing guys cry about this shit, then see their other posts, all they want is some gorgeous woman.

If people would listen to me and understand the basics of status and dating value, no one would have that problem. low status men would not go after high status women and vice versa. Everyone would know their damn place.


And it usually takes a whole lot more than just walking up to a woman to get her ready to fuck.

Seriously? Porn has lied to me. :frown1:
 

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It's nice to know I have a new friend.

Here I was hoping I could put some of this angst and "stick in the mud" stuff behind me.

So, New End, exactly what type of women do you think I should be asking out?
 

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It's nice to know I have a new friend.

Here I was hoping I could put some of this angst and "stick in the mud" stuff behind me.

So, New End, exactly what type of women do you think I should be asking out?


You know, I wouldn't be taking anyone else's advice on this one, you have to follow your own instincts here. Smile at women, and go after the ones that smile back. Follow the ones that make you feel good about yourself, instead of the ones that just make your cock hard. Don't just judge by external characteristics. Find a nice person, a friend you truly like as a friend and go from there.
 

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the story I heard about that line is

you get slapped all the time...
you get laid all the time.

Actually I asked my waitress that last night at a bar. Convo went something like this

me: Can I ask you a quick question?
her: Sure.
me: I'd like you to be completely honest with me. I think you are extremely attractive.
her: Oh thank you!
me: I was wondering if I could have sex with you tonight?
her: Um, no (she laughs) But I appreciate you being so straight forward with me
me: ok, sorry to bother you

There might have been a couple more words exchanged, but that was the gist of it.
 

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Having a big dick is not everything to a woman. I'm about 7.5" long and 6" girth. I dated a girl who said I was the biggest she had ever seen. She still dumped me before we had sex because I wasn't buff enough I guess you'd say, even though I do work out and lift. So it's not all about dick size, a big dick doesn't make every woman swoon, some even like small ones. Don't put so much importance on your size, I wouldn't mention it to this girl and I doubt she'll even say anything.
 

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You know, I wouldn't be taking anyone else's advice on this one, you have to follow your own instincts here. Smile at women, and go after the ones that smile back. Follow the ones that make you feel good about yourself, instead of the ones that just make your cock hard. Don't just judge by external characteristics. Find a nice person, a friend you truly like as a friend and go from there.

I already do smile at them. Precious few smile back and they always seem to be taken.

Actually I asked my waitress that last night at a bar. Convo went something like this

me: Can I ask you a quick question?
her: Sure.
me: I'd like you to be completely honest with me. I think you are extremely attractive.
her: Oh thank you!
me: I was wondering if I could have sex with you tonight?
her: Um, no (she laughs) But I appreciate you being so straight forward with me
me: ok, sorry to bother you

There might have been a couple more words exchanged, but that was the gist of it.

I'm sure it helps if you are attractive yourself. She obviously thought is was somewhat flattering that you were desiring sex from her. I doubt she'd be so nice if it was an ugly guy that did the same thing.

Having a big dick is not everything to a woman. I'm about 7.5" long and 6" girth. I dated a girl who said I was the biggest she had ever seen. She still dumped me before we had sex because I wasn't buff enough I guess you'd say, even though I do work out and lift. So it's not all about dick size, a big dick doesn't make every woman swoon, some even like small ones. Don't put so much importance on your size, I wouldn't mention it to this girl and I doubt she'll even say anything.

Jesus, how buff did she want her guys?