hi there...i've been a member of this forum for a while and thought this might be a good place to get some advice so i've been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. and i do love him. i want him to be happy and the last thing i ever want is to see him hurt. however...things lately have been a bit rocky. i'm 23, he's 29, and he wants me to make him THE priority in my life. we don't live together, and right now i'm feeling like he really is pressuring me to move in with him. he talks about it almost every time we're together, says things like "oh that would be nice if WE had a place," or "that would look good in OUR place." And the thing is...i'm not ready. i'm not even out to my family, how would that work out if they visited? also, both of us are in school, and working full time, and the thought of making a relationship THE priority in my life does not seem practical for the both of us. and sexually...i'll admit i have lost intersest. i love to cuddle with him, but not really anything else. so my questions are...does it seem right that i have been seriously thinking of breaking this off? and, what is the best way to go about breaking up with someone you've seriously been with for more than a year? he's my first boyfriend and i've never been in a situation like this before. my friends say to end things, but i just feel torn. i don't want to hurt him, but i dont think things can work out.