Breakups Harder With A Hung Guy

[Knight]

Is it harder for you to leave a guy who you know you should, either because he's abusive, disrespectful or because you just aren't compatible? Domo.

 

[TallHungLB]

Originally posted by Knight@Oct 12 2005, 10:03 AM
Is it harder for you to leave a guy who you know you should, either because he's abusive, disrespectful or because you just aren't compatible? Domo.

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I don't think the reason WHY you're leaving a partner has any effect on the difficulty in leaving. But if you're in an abusive relationship, either physically or mentally, the most important thing is to get out no matter how much it breaks your heart.

 

[Rikter8]

I agree.

Ive dated LOTS of guys...and Ive learned to put up with NO crap.

Theres lots of people out there...and if someone is being abusive in some form or shape.... you need to exit, as its just not worth it.
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[dlcs]

Originally posted by Rikter8@Oct 12 2005, 02:57 PM
I agree.

Ive dated LOTS of guys...and Ive learned to put up with NO crap.

Theres lots of people out there...and if someone is being abusive in some form or shape.... you need to exit, as its just not worth it.
C

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Was married less than three years when I woke up one day, looked at my husband, and thought "My god, I just don't like you." Packed up, left, and never looked back. He tried to dictate who I was, what I thought, what my feelings were, even tried to get me pregnant without asking me if I wanted to have kids. No thanks.

 

[13788]

orionsword57: I've known one woman in my life who stayed in a relationship "because of the sex" as the man, while not overtly abusive, lived off of her and was basically an idler. She is a woman who was very open about her likes and needs regarding both size and stamina, and though very self-reliant, hung on to him. His attitude was... "hey, you need a man like me in bed, take it or leave it." It took her 5 years to dump the guy. Just one example, but it happens.

 

[txquis]

This will sound so lame, but in my life it has been harder to leave
someone when the sex was incredible,
even if the emotional part was barren.

In my last long term relationship, i stuck around
for a whole year longer than i would have if the sex had been
bad or nonexistant.
Finally, i thought...this is really crazy....think how much better
good sex will be with someone i have a great emotional relationship with...
it will be doubly good.
And for me, it is.

 

[Dr Rock]

Originally posted by txquis@Oct 13 2005, 03:08 PM
This will sound so lame, but in my life it has been harder to leave
someone when the sex was incredible,
even if the emotional part was barren.

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how is that pathetic? it indicates a far greater degree of personal security than someone who feels the need to attach themselves to emotional buoys.