Breast autoplay

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  1. Kevbo

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    Ladies:

    How many of you give your breasts significant attention when you masturbate? Only at the beginning, or throughout?

    How many of you give your breasts significant attention if a guy is performing oral sex on you or is maybe banging you from behind or in some other position where he can't easily massage them for you?

    The reason I ask is that, on a lot of amateur videos, the women are pleasuring themselves up top quite often. But my experience in RL is that the breasts are closer to a "gateway drug" -- stimulating them gets the, ahem, ball rolling, but they typically don't factor in much beyond foreplay.

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    I play with mine, especially my nipples early on during masturbation, but then my hands are both needed elsewhere. Usually, however, i imagine that I am (or fantasy partner is) still playing with them.

    When receiving oral sex, i rarely play with them unless it seems the giver wants a show.

    I never realized how odd all that was until I wrote it down.
     
  3. dolfette

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    the porn thing is mostly because men like to see it.
    obviously.
     
  4. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    I have very small ones so i don't have much to play with


    usually


    sometimes
     
  5. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I dont even noticed my breasts during masturbation. I love it when my husband plays with them during foreplay and sex.
     
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    I've been with women who very very much enjoyed having their breasts played with (not just during foreplay, but during sex as well).

    But even in those cases where they clearly enjoy the sensation, they don't take over and do it themself when I'm not.

    Their hands are usually on me, grabbing the bed, etc etc.

    I'd agree that the self breastplay during sex thing is, with maybe the occasional exception, pretty exclusive to porn.
     
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    odd breasts out :redface:

    i'll play with my breasts/nipples during most sexual activity unless my hands are otherwise occupied. heaps of nipple play post masturbation orgasm.

    i might be a touch compulisve about the boob self stimulation. if i am alone watching movies, i'll sorta squeeze/massage my boobs. i get what i call the lazy horn-on and i'll just sorta run my fingertips over my boobs and across my chest.. and my creepy ass does it for hours.. i find it more relaxing than a huge turn on...ummm kinda content/horny/relaxed??

    not sure if the last bits counts as as playing with my breasts because the real appeal is touching.. not that being touched isn't a good thing.. the main pleasure is from the touching.

    *real life blushing goes here* i kinda took up knitting to keep my hands busy.
     
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    me either
     
  9. Kevbo

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    40H is too small to play with? Do you need help? :smile:

    Kevbo
     
  10. L_Lynn

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    My nipples are the main control switches for the waterworks below.

    I almost always play with them during masturbation until, as stated above, both my hands are needed elsewhere and then I rely on imagination. I will touch them during oral, tho not a lot as I think my hands are usually clenching and unclenching whatever is nearby. I don't think I do during sex.... but I love when my partner does.
     
  11. Kevbo

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    Ladies,

    Thanks for your responses. The general gist I'm getting is, breast stimulation is close to mandatory at the beginning, and a nice-to-have later on if convenient.

    I also wanted to mention that I've met a few women who can't really stimulate their own breasts to any real level of arousal; sort of like the deal where you can't tickle yourself. But when I did the stimulating (which I would describe as observant and relentless but not Harlequinesque), ooh la la. Maybe that plays into the apparent rarity of women who can (and will) stimulate their breasts?

    Kevbo
     
  12. dolfette

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    should add, if i'm on the verge of orgasm then a nipple tweak will send me over the edge. if anything it's more important at the end.
     
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    I love attention to my breasts during sex and the right suction on my nipples spirals straight down to my crotch. I will play with them when masturbating if my hands aren't needed elsewhere.

    During sex I'll play with my own breasts to help demonstrate to my partner what I like. I'd rather he stimulate my breasts so I can have my hands free to stimulate him.
     
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    I can pull, pinch, rub, tweak, even suck my own nipples but it is never as arousing as feeling someone else's hot wet mouth sucking on them.

    Ditto.

    Me too!
     
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