Originally posted by Karen M@Jul 29 2005, 08:24 PM
Alleyblu,
I think first you have to remember that most of the orgasms you see in porn movies are fake! Second, I did say that I don't gush or anything. I'm not a squirter. lol
I've always lubricated pretty well, though, and I think female ejaculation is just the natural extension of that. I truly don't see it as anything out of the ordinary.
:happy: Karen
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I must agree on several counts. I do think most of the female orgasms you seen in porn movies are fake. I also think that female ejaculation is not out of the ordinary by any means. Not as common, but it does occur. I suspect it occurs a lot more, but the amount and "force" is so small or it occurs while both partners are still thrusting, so it is might be commonly overlooked because the lady is already "wet". Just an thought. Lastly, I have met several women who could reach the "brink" with breast play and the slightest bit more caused them to go over the edge with an orgasm, such as feeling my penis head covering their vagina or starting to enter them. I have known a few women who I suspected that the breast play and kissing them gave them what they might call "mini" orgasms, but we never stopped to analyze that or comment, just kept right on having fun. It is not a race or a "counting" exercise anyway. The object is to have fun, get excited, make your partner have a wonderful time, and enjoy yourself too. Orgasms are just part of that. I am always happy to give my partner as much pleasure as possible whether that be by kissing, breast play, oral stimulation of their vagina/clitoris, whatever. Giving a partner as much pleasure and orgasms as possible before attempting to fuck has always been a good thing. Women are unique about breast play. Some women like it, some have little feeling in their breasts, and some love it. Quite a few women have seemed to really like holding my penis and running the head all over their breasts and especially around the areola and nipple. It has been my experience, for what it is worth, that the larger endowed woman doesn't want all a mans attention on her breasts, but he better darn well pay attention to them because they are part of her...and some women who are larger really do like having a very big penis to fondle between them. Most women aren't endowed enough to do that, and most men are not big enough to fill and overflow their cleavage, so larger endowed women I have encountered have often really appreciated the perspective and experience of a man big enough to do that. Women can be very visual too, and some truly endowed women I have known have told me they loved the experience of finding a man with a penis long enough to stick out of their cleavage and more. One woman told me once that her first thought on seeing me flaccid was not would I fit in her vagina, but how long was I in relation to her cleavage. So for her, her perspective was unique. Every woman is unique. Just my two cents of experience.
Karen
