bringing one or two more people into the bedroom.

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  1. D_N Flay Table

    D_N Flay Table New Member

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    My chick and I have been talking about bringing another person/couple into the bed room with us...
    I think it would be kinda cool..
    But I also realize it could be a game changer...
    any thought or experience with this?:confused:
     
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    Just bring one person, a girl, and you're all good! :biggrin1:

    Hehe, but seriously...

    If it's just one person and a guy, is she wanting you to watch while she has sex with him or have a straight up threesome with the both of you?

    If it's a couple, is she wanting you to have sex with the girl while she has sex with the guy or just have a straight up foursome - what's the deal? :tongue:
     
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    Once had another guy join in the fun - fucker took over the whole scene and became weird. I do not recommend
     
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    She would do both the guy and the girl... and I would do both girls... just a fun romp...
     
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    I am the alpha male here...
    Like I said, I know the guy, and he is non threatening.
    not to mention I got at least 2" on him ;)
    D
     
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    You never know what some dudes gonna do -
     
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    THat is true...
    However.... with groundrules already laid out.. I don't think there will be any issues.
     
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    Well that sounds all good, I guess. If I had strong feelings for her I might reconsider it.

    If I really like a girl I honestly don't want to have sex with any other girl but her and I'd like to think she felt the same in a sense towards me.

    However, if she's just your chill gf to have sex/do fun things with and nothing serious then by all means have fun, go for it and make her happy too! :tongue:
     
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    It's all about trust. Make sure both of you are both honestly comfortable with it. If one of you is just saying okay to make the other happy, it could cause problems.
     
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    well then what is the fun in that!?!?
     
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    yeah, still this is one of those incidents you wanna ignore sanfrancisco and have a pistol close by......

    seriously though with a guy or girl, if you are all comfortable and in to each other, it can be one of the most intimate and comfortable times of your life..... you get it wrong, and its back to the band... of the hand
     
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    I'm in a group where we do this some time, and it can be kind of a kick
     
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    Why are you doing this?

    1. You get off on the thought of seeing your GF getting drilled?
    2. Vice versa - her to you?
    3. You want to drill another female but want GF consent?
    4. She wants DP?

    I think it is a most envious scenario, meeting a GF who will entertain moresomes. Go for it but dont forget the camcorder.
     
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    1. Think it could be neat.
    2. Yes.
    3. Not really.
    4. Yes
     
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    Make sure the other guy isn't a whimp. If you are a lot bigger or more dom than him, he can wind up being a wallflower. Not fun.

    At least that's how I feel about it. Kinda like playing football with a guy who can't throw, catch or run.
     
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    My god... to be a fly on the wall when that happens... I would die and go to heaven! :)

    Good luck bro!
     
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    We had a 3 way with a girl the other night... It was interesting... I enjoyed it.
    Now on to the 4 way ;)
     
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    I agree. Even with the ground rules set and honest intentions understood, this has at least a 50/50 chance of blowing up in your face. Feelings could change during or after the event with disastrous results.

    My early experiences were somewhat positive, but my last hookup cost me a very close friendship and many, many lingering hard feelings. :frown1:

     
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    Don't do it; the game never changes for the better.

    So what does the little guy do while you're banging his woman? Rim you, does your gf blow him, or j/o? :confused:
     
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    So the problem is solved.You did it, enjoyd it and even want more. Keep us informed about the 4some! ;)
     
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