Brobag writer thinks most women are bad at sex

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This can't ALWAYS be true....some women love their ex's much longer after seperation, some women think a lot about the act of sex itself. Some men go through the same thing....it's difficult for me now to enjoy sex without some sort of attachment. Be it friendship, hangin out together, talking or some connection. Maybe now that I am older, I am afraid of the unknown when it comes to sex.

I never used the word always.

But really... if you aren't focused on the pleasure of your partner... then your not a good lover, period.

I do not mean by that that you don't feel your own passion, Lust, hunger, etc... but that your response is tied to her response.
Great lovers are men, or women, for whom their mate's passion escalates their own.


Personally- I have never had sex with any woman I did not feel attachment to...

I think a lot of bad lover experiences are probably rooted in two people who barely know each other, who don't know how to get each other really going...


That doesn't mean that either of them would not be a Great lover with someone else.
 

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The guy's just pointing out that woman can be as bad as men in bed... and that double standards don't only target women. I know many women are insecure, but men don't often see it. Some women do act very arrogant and as if the doing you a favor by getting naked and spreading their legs. I'm sure that most women who are insecure, probably do at least fairly well, just because they try. It's only a turn off when a woman's insecurity prevents her from letting herself go or 'attacking' the act of sex.

It definitely takes two to tango. I think each partner will tend to match the other's energy. Sex is great when you have a rhythm and chemistry, but can be quite frustrating if there's none whatsoever. Yeah, the guy basically gets off no matter what... but not all orgasms are created equal and some guys actually enjoy sex and getting her off, too. I love it when a woman takes some ownership in the act and has energy. Most women expect the guy to lead, but some take it to the extreme and really don't contribute. That's a turn off and it's difficult to carry the entire burden (and it does become a burden). I also get the feeling that a lot of women who complain about bad sex, are not meeting the guy halfway.

PS--I'm glad I'm not the only one who's frustrated with the crush and grind. It actually feels good, but oddly isn't sexually stimulating for me. I like it for a couple of seconds mixed in, but the longer she does it the softer I get. It seems to 'choke' the blood flow.
 

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You had me at "Brobrag" :squint:

I really despise better sex, or just sex related magazine articles. I am not against the idea of trying to improve sex lives, but the generalizations they often make and "sex recipes" they put out as if they are a bullseye for everyone and anyone are very misleading.

One of my ex's was a bit too Askmen'ish and that was just a fucking catastrophe in the bedroom. Funny part was that I got blame because he was going "by the book".

Oke, bitching is done.
 

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It's nice, too, when you don't treat our semen like it's battery acid.

Yup, that's the difference between good and bad for me. There are those who act like it's snot, and those who love it for what it is; a hot, gushing orgasm.
 

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It's nice, too, when you don't treat our semen like it's battery acid.

Yup, that's the difference between good and bad for me. There are those who act like it's snot, and those who love it for what it is; a hot, gushing orgasm.

Tell you what: You cum in your own eye, and then tell me it's not akin to battery acid.
 

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real simple.. anyone not willing to take responsibility for their own pleasure/orgasm is horrible in bed. anyone not willing to help their partner to their pleasure/orgasm is horrible in bed.

grumble - is not dude's job to get the woman off. she's been getting herself off for years, she knows what it takes.. step up/speak up or go home to wank. if she's worried about being thought of as a slut? grow the fuck up.

just cuz most dudes orgasm - all my dude friends have told me stories of the dead orgasm. that a man ejaculating doesn't mean you rocked his world. kinda like walking over the finish line, last place, instead of setting a new record and winning the trophy.

some folks attitudes toward sex seem terribly assbackward to me :confused:

This.
 

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Whatever. Its more BS in the battle of the sexes. Men say women are psychos, women say men are dogs. Women are bitchy, men are stupid. Women give blowjobs once a year on a guy's birthday, men never take out the trash. Blah blah blah blah....