Sounds like you and i take a lot to make us cum. if you don't mind telling me the name of the vibrator and where you purchased it. It takes a lot to get me to cum as well. I had a penile implant in January of this year and it just takes a lot more for me to cum. I'm in my senior yrs but really love to fuck my wife of 36 yrs. If you have any suggestions on products that might make me cum i would greatly appreciate it. My wife and I usually fuck 2-3 times a week. I am one of those guys that has to have pussy or i am not a happy camper. I could fuck her for an hour every day but that is to much for her at this point in her life. We really enoy 2-3 times a week. My wife cums harder than anyone i have every seen. We really enjoy fucking each other. best of luck to you man!
I wouldn't say that I have a hard time cumming. I say it took a bit of work to get off because a vibrator is just a different type of stimulation, and its just not as effective in my experience as just stroking normally. But it is an interesting feeling and I think the variety of trying something different is very enjoyable.
I've purchased two different vibrators, and I wouldn't recommend either one of them. But they were cheap and if you want to try them you can find them on Amazon by searching these names, though one of them is sold out:
Massage Travel - Portable Waterproof Bullet Toy Muscle Therapy for a Couple of Games
VibeMax Mini Wand Massager: Compact - Lightweight - USB Rechargeable (Black)
The first one, if the name didn't make it obvious, is a very cheap import from China. Its sold out, and I don't recommend it, but it was the better of the two. The vibration was stronger and I hold it in my hand against my shaft while I stroked. This vibrations felt really good, especially on the underside of the head, and it was different feeling to stroke with something extra in the hand. But it died after a couple of months, and the materials made me nervous.
The second one was a much nicer product, but even on its strongest setting just didn't provide enough stimulation.
I think vibrators are mostly designed with insertion or clit stimulation in mind, and I guess its better if the vibration has a faster and weaker pulse. I think for a penis, or at least mine, its better to have a slower but strong pulse. I think that a Hitachi Wand might be the answer. I've seen a few reviews from men and they are pretty positive, and they sell attachments for men for them too. I might actually buy one right now, and if I do I'll give you an update.
I do have a Theragun, but I think it would be dangerous to use that.