Hey… decades, schmecades… it’s like riding a bike. Find a lasting relationship based on kindness and respect. And look, your desire for a close and comforting connection is absolutely valid. Who doesn’t want that? It's not silly to yearn for a meaningful and supportive friendship where you can just be yourself, hang out, and find solace. These "bromances" can absolutely exist in today's world.
This isn’t weird to me at all. Society has evolved, and people still value and seek out deep connections and companionship. It's not limited by gender or sexual orientation. Many people, regardless of their background, are looking for genuine friendships where they can share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. These connections might not be as common as casual acquaintances, but they definitely do exist. Now, forming close friendships takes time and effort. It's about finding someone who shares your interests, values, and vibe. You might come across individuals who are also looking for the same kind of connection. Whether it's a male or female friend, what matters most is the depth of understanding and support you can offer each other. I get the feeling that a strong “a romance” is what you are craving. Like an older brother, a guy you can look up to, a male figure if you will.
And hey, in a world where technology and social media can sometimes lead to superficial interactions, there are still people out there seeking deeper connections, like yourself. So, don't feel discouraged in your pursuit of a meaningful bromance. Keep being open, genuine, and patient, and you might just find that special friend who resonates with your desire for closeness and companionship. Maybe try an ad in Craigslist? Meet up for a coffee and make your own decision on if you feel safe, etc. Physical and emotional safety are paramount for you, so be wise and use your instincts. Best of luck And TAKE THINGS SLOOOOOOOOOW.
Kisses on all your pink parts

JEFF