Bromance

I am currently processing a potential Bromance with my new boss.. do you ever just like someone right away and hope we can be best friends someday??
I’m curious, what kind of dynamic develops?

Any insights on how to make sweet bromance with out making it weird?
 
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Hey brothers, been close to that but it never developed fully into what I would consider a real bromance. Definitely still open to it though. I’m very long-term oriented and struggle to find someone who would see it the same way.
 
Do you have a bromance?

Definition: a very close, emotionally intimate, non-sexual friendship between two or more men

Have you broken the definition and was curious sexually?
I did in college. Then later a co worker and I did. When others around that they just consider u one entity that’s usually when u know u are in a bromance. Unf life events change / leave college or leave a job u tend to not keep it up. Miss those guys. I don’t really have one today and I miss it.
 
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I had a really good buddy in college, Brett. It was definitely a bromance. We were always together, even had an apartment together. We could be affectionate with each other. Drink together, listen to music together, sleep together, golf together, workout together, etc. He liked to do sit ups naked in the steamroom at the gym. He wasn't shy about nudity, at the gym or at home. We both liked to be naked a lot. It was about bonding and being relaxed, although he was really handsome and built. He would talk to me when I was in the shower. There was a lot of emotional intimacy. Occasionally, we would jackoff to str8 porn together, but it never felt weird or uncomfortable. I was so in love with that guy, even though I knew he was str8. He eventually met a girl and got married and the friendship ended, but man, we had some good times.
 
Have my best friend for decades.

He's straight but our bromance is strong. We talk daily. Hang out, go for drinks, gym, pool and sauna (not the ones you're thinking of - get your mind outta the gutter!). We lived together for about 5 years and were comfortable walking around naked, he'd use the toilet while I was showering and vice versa. He borrowed my clothes and I borrowed his. Nothing sexual ever happened between us.

Bromance is still going strong to this day even though he's engaged now.