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Dump the girlfriend. No girl that lets your brother high-five over her back is worth it.

Kick the buddy in the balls unless he is a pissy-baby that will rat you to the cops.

As far as your brother, telephone, telegram, tell-a-aunt Cathy who spreads all the family gossip. That will embarrass the bastard, and you can be the bigger man by forgiving him later.
 

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So this has been really difficult for me. My brother has a Memorial Day party every year at his place, but I couldn't make it this year because I had to be out of town for work. I was okay with my girlfriend going to the party without me because I didn't want her to be alone. I wanted her to have fun.

Anyway, to make a long story short, she confessed to me last night that she had a threesome with my brother and his buddy. She said they all got wasted and things just got out of control. I can't believe my brother would do this to me no matter how high or drunk he got. Right now I'm just so angry with all of them. I don't know what to do.

Before you jump to conclusions talk to your brother. The girlfriend might be lying. Whether she is being honest or not doesnt' even matter, you have to get rid of her immediately. Remember, just because she is saying it happened doesn't mean it did. She may just be a psycho out to fuck you over. Maybe she made a move on your brother and he told her no and this is her way of getting back at him. TALK TO YOUR BROTHER.
DUMP THE GIRL.

If it did happen then try to find out what was going on with your brother that he would cross a line like this and then decide how much contact you want with him from here on.
 

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I would dump the ho. Too bad your brother was involved. Yes you wil need to forgive him but it won't be easy, it may take a long time to get over his betrayal. As for his friend a knee to the balls perhaps? Good luck.
 

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if anything, you owe the posters a follow up / date OP
nothing worse ( but VERY Common) with LPSG members, non courteous behaviours
quite boring actually,and i seem to notice usual contributors offering sound advice, just not bothering these days .. with certain dilemmas.. genuine or not?

Yes we can always say ..been mighty busy with .. whatever.
 

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So this has been really difficult for me. My brother has a Memorial Day party every year at his place, but I couldn't make it this year because I had to be out of town for work. I was okay with my girlfriend going to the party without me because I didn't want her to be alone. I wanted her to have fun.

Anyway, to make a long story short, she confessed to me last night that she had a threesome with my brother and his buddy. She said they all got wasted and things just got out of control. I can't believe my brother would do this to me no matter how high or drunk he got. Right now I'm just so angry with all of them. I don't know what to do.

Dump your gf, disown your 'freind', dont leave your next gf with your brother and dont put your next gf in this situation again
 

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I agree with others, Dump the dirty bitch, tell the friend off, and jerk off in your brothers coffee when you get the chance!
 

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This smells like cuckold porn.

It does to me, too. Plus OP hasn't posted since. :confused:

But assuming it's real--how do we know the girlfriend was a real girlfriend? Were they exclusive? Monogamous? Did he have legit expectations that she'd be faithful? Did the brother know she was a girlfriend? Or did he think she was just a horny FWB? Six months from now, OP might think his brother did him a favor.

Sure, the brother shouldn't have done it, but she's just a culpable. The brother's friend? Who the fuck cares? If one of my buddies told me a hot chick was available for a threesome, I might not ask to see her papers.

I banged a couple of my buddy's "girlfriends" back in college and neither of us ever thought anything of it.
 

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Feel what you feel, and do what you must. Don't go to jail over this. And in the end, remember that if you continue to feel angry toward any of them, they will control you. I'm not saying forgive and be friends. I'm saying if you cut them out, learn to feel indifferent toward them.
 

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Thanks for all the posts. I haven't spoken to my brother in person, but we've had a couple of emails and I know he feels like a piece of shit. I will forgive him and in time I hope we can be close again. My now ex-girfriend is history. I just couldn't see how I could ever trust her again. I'm a liberal kind of guy, but I have my limits. My brother's buddy is an asshole and not worth my time.
 

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Thanks for all the posts. I haven't spoken to my brother in person, but we've had a couple of emails and I know he feels like a piece of shit. I will forgive him and in time I hope we can be close again. My now ex-girfriend is history. I just couldn't see how I could ever trust her again. I'm a liberal kind of guy, but I have my limits. My brother's buddy is an asshole and not worth my time.

Sounds like you're handling it well. :smile:
 

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Thanks for all the posts. I haven't spoken to my brother in person, but we've had a couple of emails and I know he feels like a piece of shit. I will forgive him and in time I hope we can be close again. My now ex-girfriend is history. I just couldn't see how I could ever trust her again. I'm a liberal kind of guy, but I have my limits. My brother's buddy is an asshole and not worth my time.

So you have a double standard? You'll forgive the brother but not the girl? That's fucked up. She is no worse than him and in truth he is the lowest piece of shit in the group. Sorry.

Hope your remember this the next time he fucks you over.
 

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I agree with others, Dump the dirty bitch, tell the friend off, and jerk off in your brothers coffee when you get the chance!

LMMFAOOO @ this!!!


Thanks for all the posts. I haven't spoken to my brother in person, but we've had a couple of emails and I know he feels like a piece of shit. I will forgive him and in time I hope we can be close again. My now ex-girfriend is history. I just couldn't see how I could ever trust her again. I'm a liberal kind of guy, but I have my limits. My brother's buddy is an asshole and not worth my time.

Hope you're doin ok SR7. Glad you kicked the girl to the curb. Life is too short to waste your time, energy and love on someone that you can't trust.

I understand that your brother is family - perhaps you feel obligated to forgive him? It's definitely very generous of you - that's for damn sure! Personally? I don't know if I could do it. Having said that, forgiving and being able to move forward is certainly healthier for you in the long run. Holding on to resentment ends up hurting you just as bad as the person your resenting. Maybe more.

Forgive. Just don't forget. And don't ever allow him the opportunity to fuck you over like this in the future.

Good luck to you!

:smile:

PS... I'm thinkin Cut88's advice is brilliant!! Have your brother over for "coffee" at some point!! :biggrin: :lmao: :biggrin:
 
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So you have a double standard? You'll forgive the brother but not the girl? That's fucked up. She is no worse than him and in truth he is the lowest piece of shit in the group. Sorry.

Hope your remember this the next time he fucks you over.

She is no worse than him, but the brother isn't the lowest POS in the group. All three of them acted horribly, but the brother's buddy was less of a prick because he didn't have either a platonic or romantic relationship with SR7138. SR7138's now-ex betrayed her boyfriend's trust in an enormous way and obviously his brother did as well,. Just a sad story all around, but the brother and the girlfriend are equally culpable, because they both had a relationship with SR7138 and forked him over pretty good.

Stories like this make me want to stay single forever. I know some stats say that men cheat more than women and that women typically cheat for emotional reasons and men for physical. I think that while men may have had higher rates of cheating in the past (say 50 years ago when women had less freedom and independence), ever since the sexual revolution, the cheating has equalized. And just among my circle of extended friends, I know quite a few girls who cheated for the same reason that SR7138's girlfriend apparently did -- for short-term physical gratification, the quintessential mail reason. She couldn't keep it in her pants. I also know a couple of guys who carried on emotional affairs with women other than their girlfriends. Basisally, life sucks. As a single 27 y/o SR7138's story just confirms to me that I should seriously reconsider my plan to get married and have kids someday, because while it's bad enough for a boyfriend or girlfriend to screw someone over like this, I'm sure it's even worse when it's your spouse and you have to go through the messy divorce proceedings.