Brother & friend with my GF

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She is no worse than him, but the brother isn't the lowest POS in the group. All three of them acted horribly, but the brother's buddy was less of a prick because he didn't have either a platonic or romantic relationship with SR7138. SR7138's now-ex betrayed her boyfriend's trust in an enormous way and obviously his brother did as well,. Just a sad story all around, but the brother and the girlfriend are equally culpable, because they both had a relationship with SR7138 and forked him over pretty good.

Stories like this make me want to stay single forever. I know some stats say that men cheat more than women and that women typically cheat for emotional reasons and men for physical. I think that while men may have had higher rates of cheating in the past (say 50 years ago when women had less freedom and independence), ever since the sexual revolution, the cheating has equalized. And just among my circle of extended friends, I know quite a few girls who cheated for the same reason that SR7138's girlfriend apparently did -- for short-term physical gratification, the quintessential mail reason. She couldn't keep it in her pants. I also know a couple of guys who carried on emotional affairs with women other than their girlfriends. Basisally, life sucks. As a single 27 y/o SR7138's story just confirms to me that I should seriously reconsider my plan to get married and have kids someday, because while it's bad enough for a boyfriend or girlfriend to screw someone over like this, I'm sure it's even worse when it's your spouse and you have to go through the messy divorce proceedings.
I'm gonna have to disagree. Family is family, the brother is the one person who should of had his back the most. I don't care how close they were or how distant they were, the brother is a lowlife piece of shit, who fill fuck him over again.

The ex girlfriend, yeah she's low but to treat her worse than the brother is bullshit. At least she coughed up the truth for whatever reason. Brother...only cause the girl ratted him out. He never would have said a thing, EVER!
 

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I'm gonna have to disagree. Family is family, the brother is the one person who should of had his back the most. I don't care how close they were or how distant they were, the brother is a lowlife piece of shit, who fill fuck him over again.

The ex girlfriend, yeah she's low but to treat her worse than the brother is bullshit. At least she coughed up the truth for whatever reason. Brother...only cause the girl ratted him out. He never would have said a thing, EVER!

I wonder what people would have said if instead of a brother, it was the guys father, grand father or pastor.
 

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I'd be interested in hearing from OP why and how his GF told him about this event, how/why OP expected his relationship with his GF to be exclusive, what his brother said, and how that related to the GF's story.

All that aside, the brother owes more to OP than any GF, and that makes his behavior the more distressing. However, he is family, and cutting him off is more difficult and carries more consequences than ending a relationship with a GF who did not seem to share OP's expectation of an exclusive relationship or the significance of ending that exclusivity with OP's own brother.
 

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I'm gonna have to disagree. Family is family, the brother is the one person who should of had his back the most. I don't care how close they were or how distant they were, the brother is a lowlife piece of shit, who fill fuck him over again.

The ex girlfriend, yeah she's low but to treat her worse than the brother is bullshit. At least she coughed up the truth for whatever reason. Brother...only cause the girl ratted him out. He never would have said a thing, EVER!

i'm sure i'm not in a majority in this world but i don't buy at all that 'family' gets any more or less in the world of behaving correctly to be deserved of anything in life. they all three fucked him over and there's no reason all three don't need to face the same consequences for their actions, whatever those consequences the OP chooses. i'm sick of family members assuming they can always have a free pass or at the very least, more leniency, than anyone else on this planet if they don't behave like a decent human being.
 

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So this has been really difficult for me. My brother has a Memorial Day party every year at his place, but I couldn't make it this year because I had to be out of town for work. I was okay with my girlfriend going to the party without me because I didn't want her to be alone. I wanted her to have fun.

Anyway, to make a long story short, she confessed to me last night that she had a threesome with my brother and his buddy. She said they all got wasted and things just got out of control. I can't believe my brother would do this to me no matter how high or drunk he got. Right now I'm just so angry with all of them. I don't know what to do.


You know what...family don't do that kind of low down dutty ish. That is one line family should NEVER cross.


I can honestly say this much. If my brother EVER did something like that with a man I was in love with...that fucker will catch hell.
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Okay so, here's the thing. There's something else going on here. If you can't trust your girl with your brother and his friend, she's not happy with you. Your brother shouldn't have taken advantage of the situation, but she's to blame, not him or his friend.
 

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Okay so, here's the thing. There's something else going on here. If you can't trust your girl with your brother and his friend, she's not happy with you. Your brother shouldn't have taken advantage of the situation, but she's to blame, not him or his friend.

Is this like a bros before hoes sort of thing cause i'm lost. Not only lost but a bit astonished. So its ok for your brother and a friend to have sex with your girlfriend but not ok for your girlfriend to have sex with your brother and friend? How is that even close to be logical?
 

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Okay so, here's the thing. There's something else going on here. If you can't trust your girl with your brother and his friend, she's not happy with you. Your brother shouldn't have taken advantage of the situation, but she's to blame, not him or his friend.
They are all the blame. If the brother knew his brother had a girlfriend...THAT IS SUFFICIENT TO KNOW THAT YOU DON'T CROSS THAT LINE. And you don't involve your friend in it. NO EXCUSES.

Family members don't cross that line. If any of my family members woulda done that to me, I would totally make sure that that won't ever happen again. Those beyotches BETTER respect that. I tell you they will remember not to do that ish again.


 

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Okay so, here's the thing. There's something else going on here. If you can't trust your girl with your brother and his friend, she's not happy with you. Your brother shouldn't have taken advantage of the situation, but she's to blame, not him or his friend.

She is no worse than the brother. He is by far the worst and you are a fucking tool.
 

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Is this like a bros before hoes sort of thing cause i'm lost. Not only lost but a bit astonished. So its ok for your brother and a friend to have sex with your girlfriend but not ok for your girlfriend to have sex with your brother and friend? How is that even close to be logical?

Indeed. Would love a reply to that one!!
 

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i'm sure i'm not in a majority in this world but i don't buy at all that 'family' gets any more or less in the world of behaving correctly to be deserved of anything in life. they all three fucked him over and there's no reason all three don't need to face the same consequences for their actions, whatever those consequences the OP chooses. i'm sick of family members assuming they can always have a free pass or at the very least, more leniency, than anyone else on this planet if they don't behave like a decent human being.

Exactly. However family is family nonetheless and whatever situation can create a divide between two members inadvertently ends up affecting the other persons in said family. That is why a situation like this in reality has much bigger proportions than just cutting people out. Delicate.
 

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I'm right there with flgirl. I hope she enjoyed it. Be happy she was honest with you. Let her have your brother once in a while. Let it be a bonding experience instead of a betrayal. Get rid of foolish jealous lines in the sand. Perhaps the fact that she got it on with these people who are close and safe, shows you that she is really sexual and hot.
 

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I'm right there with flgirl. I hope she enjoyed it. Be happy she was honest with you. Let her have your brother once in a while. Let it be a bonding experience instead of a betrayal. Get rid of foolish jealous lines in the sand. Perhaps the fact that she got it on with these people who are close and safe, shows you that she is really sexual and hot.

There should be a sense of boundaries. If I want to bond with my family...it isn't going to be them fucking my lovers. I can honestly say that much.

 

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I'm right there with flgirl. I hope she enjoyed it. Be happy she was honest with you. Let her have your brother once in a while. Let it be a bonding experience instead of a betrayal. Get rid of foolish jealous lines in the sand. Perhaps the fact that she got it on with these people who are close and safe, shows you that she is really sexual and hot.


Exactly be happy that she has the sexual energy to do something so sexy!