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Madame Zora I can totally identify with how you were feeling. I'm sorry you had to go thru that,also. I too wanted my tubes tied after I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured my fallopian tube and caused me to bleed
internally. Never having been pregnant, I didn't know that bleeding wasn't a normal part of pregnancy. I had heard some women still have their periods thru nine months of carrying. I asked a friend if this was normal and she clarified that I needed to go to the hospital and be checked out.
To the hospital Jimmy and I went, I was stunned when they told me
I needed emergency surgery immediately.
My fallopian tube had ruptured from the fetus lodging there,and continuing to grow.I had lost a significant amount of blood. By this time I was unable to stand, was having horrendus stabbing pains, was bleeding now, outside of my body as well as internally. It was an altogether bad time,for me and Jimmy whom I blamed for this happening. Hey! I was only twenty-one and really immature!
After they took my tube and ovary, I felt a whole lot better.
But as they were making plans to do this ,surgery I asked them to please tie my tubes, as I never wanted to have children,ever. Plus, they told me after having one ectopic pregnancy,I might be more likely to experience this again, with my next pregnancy. Imagine my horror, at being told I would have to "maybe", do this whole scenario again!?!
Hence, my request for being sterile by choice! I was told then that under NO circumstances, would any doctor perform such an "ridiculous request"!{his words} I was informed that they {doctor} would be in jeopardy of losing his license to practise medicine, for performing an uneccesary surgery! Since, I was too young {21} and hadn't had at least three children no one would consider it.
All in all,I find it curious that doctors, will pick and choose which surgeries they deem uneccesary, for your body, not you, them!
Is it any wonder that I now have PTSD, caused by dealing with "doctors", according to my shrink!
I know this was a tad rambling, but I hate how everybody else, tells you what you, should be doing with your body!
The last time I got pregnant my then bf said well go get the coathanger, lets take care of this right now!
Sweet guy, huh?
cigarbabe:saevil:
internally. Never having been pregnant, I didn't know that bleeding wasn't a normal part of pregnancy. I had heard some women still have their periods thru nine months of carrying. I asked a friend if this was normal and she clarified that I needed to go to the hospital and be checked out.
To the hospital Jimmy and I went, I was stunned when they told me
I needed emergency surgery immediately.
My fallopian tube had ruptured from the fetus lodging there,and continuing to grow.I had lost a significant amount of blood. By this time I was unable to stand, was having horrendus stabbing pains, was bleeding now, outside of my body as well as internally. It was an altogether bad time,for me and Jimmy whom I blamed for this happening. Hey! I was only twenty-one and really immature!
After they took my tube and ovary, I felt a whole lot better.
But as they were making plans to do this ,surgery I asked them to please tie my tubes, as I never wanted to have children,ever. Plus, they told me after having one ectopic pregnancy,I might be more likely to experience this again, with my next pregnancy. Imagine my horror, at being told I would have to "maybe", do this whole scenario again!?!
Hence, my request for being sterile by choice! I was told then that under NO circumstances, would any doctor perform such an "ridiculous request"!{his words} I was informed that they {doctor} would be in jeopardy of losing his license to practise medicine, for performing an uneccesary surgery! Since, I was too young {21} and hadn't had at least three children no one would consider it.
All in all,I find it curious that doctors, will pick and choose which surgeries they deem uneccesary, for your body, not you, them!
Is it any wonder that I now have PTSD, caused by dealing with "doctors", according to my shrink!
I know this was a tad rambling, but I hate how everybody else, tells you what you, should be doing with your body!
The last time I got pregnant my then bf said well go get the coathanger, lets take care of this right now!
Sweet guy, huh?
cigarbabe:saevil: