Brutal tops

Hmm.

It depends on how you mean it.

I think a top - particularly in an SM context - should be prepared to be forceful. Yes.

But it's always to be a consensual arrangement. The sub must get benefit from it. Enjoyment, insight, personal growth.

If it is sheer selfish brutality it's entirely wrong. Clearly.

But sometimes it might look like that to the uninitiated ...
 
Hmm.

It depends on how you mean it.

I think a top - particularly in an SM context - should be prepared to be forceful. Yes.

But it's always to be a consensual arrangement. The sub must get benefit from it. Enjoyment, insight, personal growth.

If it is sheer selfish brutality it's entirely wrong. Clearly.

But sometimes it might look like that to the uninitiated ...

I noticed my breathing starting to get heavy reading that. :oops: