Yes, I'm the lady whom many of you have been bashing because of my "Different" post and I want to say one thing here: HOW DARE you suggest I know nothing of a sisterhood? You know nothing, Jane Snow. I have become involved in a sisterhood that i pray none of you ever experience but yet is one that both breaks and uplifts my heart in a way I hope you will never know. You see, my beautiful son, a grown man in his 40's, is dying of ALS, Lou Gerhig's disease. All mother's are bound to a sisterhood of their love of their children and the ultimate fear of losing a child. The outpouring I have received from friends long forgotten, relatives from distant places, colleagues from jobs ages ago, friends of my son and daughter, even strangers who stop and help me when I struggle with my son's wheelchair. I can see their hearts in their eyes and their amazing strength in their embraces of me and my son.
Of course men have been important in helping my son and I but their help is different: they offer humor to help us forget; they build ramps and reshape bathrooms to make my son's life a bit better; they share his interests in sports - and the ladies; they have the strength to carry him where his wheelchair won't go. But the ladies know better how to respond to the pain my daughter-in-law, my daughter, and I are trying to live with, that sometimes the only helpful thing is a good cry and an understanding shoulder to have it on.
I will plead guilty to having used sex blogging to push my professional status, but it has become more than that: it is a way for me to forget what is happening in my personal life and to find some pleasure in quiet times. I am also guilty of trying to bring a fraction of my followers from Tumblr to a different experience with me; but I have written openly on Tumblr about my son's condition and have many followers express seemingly heartfelt condolences and I want them to know where our life is going. Lastly I will apologize for being a bit judgmental about some of you being too judgmental: I didn't like what seemed to me a constant "guilty until proven innocent" attitude toward anyone new or challenging to your LPSG universe. Perhaps I overreacted.
And, perhaps, you did, too.
Marti
Wow. So, you have problems too?
What a steaming pile of manipulative dung you threw over fence into this yard.
You are the one to be ashamed. You could have simply stated that you, as do others, have problems and are helped by others of your own sisterhood. Instead, you chose to use your own son's medical problems as emotional leverage for a disagreement in an anonymous internet forum. What the everliving fuck?
And yes, you should apologize for basically waltzing into a new-to-you forum like The Queen Bitch and then advertising your wares for sale as if you're selling an old lawnmower in Facebook Marketplace. I needed to shower after reading it.
I've spent a lot of years as a moderator of an unrelated forum. The first advice I give any newbie is to spend time getting a feel for the place before posting anything, and then ease into it as people get to know you. That's for a forum you wish to respect and participate in. But you aren't really here to participate, are you? This is just free ad space.