Bulge at the gym and how to hide it

[mattto]

Hey mattto - really hope you're not the recipient of hate on here! Nasty. Awesome pics on that island by the way.... I agree with your point above.

I've really tried to match the rules here. Maybe to stupid to understand. I'm sad, because I've tried really. It looks like some other guys can stretch the rules and to others it's very strict!
I don't understand why some have to complain about a bulge. To some extent you can of course try to hide what you have, but it's just your natural gift and not much to do about it. I like to see nice bulges! It's a bit same what was discussed in another forum about getting an erection in (gym)showers. As younger I mostly got hard or semi when showering. Usually it's nothing you can stop. I don't mean actively showing off. I think this happen sometimes to almost all guys. If you keep it a bit discrete it's nothing to be ashamed of, even if it feels embarrassing. I just love to see guys with a big package!!! There's other things about your body that you can effect your self, but you have the dick size you've got and nothing you can do. Just be proud and show off what you have!!! Don't you agree?

 

[kudoz]

I've really tried to match the rules here. Maybe to stupid to understand. I'm sad, because I've tried really. It looks like some other guys can stretch the rules and to others it's very strict!
I don't understand why some have to complain about a bulge. To some extent you can of course try to hide what you have, but it's just your natural gift and not much to do about it. I like to see nice bulges! It's a bit same what was discussed in another forum about getting an erection in (gym)showers. As younger I mostly got hard or semi when showering. Usually it's nothing you can stop. I don't mean actively showing off. I think this happen sometimes to almost all guys. If you keep it a bit discrete it's nothing to be ashamed of, even if it feels embarrassing. I just love to see guys with a big package!!! There's other things about your body that you can effect your self, but you have the dick size you've got and nothing you can do. Just be proud and show off what you have!!! Don't you agree?

Totally agree. If a guy is wearing shorts which allow the shape and size of his cock to be visible, then what's wrong with that? If he's clearly aroused and sporting an erection under the shorts, and then making this obviously visible, then that's another thing. I could imagine a girl or even some guys being unnerved by that. But really, a dude with a nice (soft) package, what's wrong with that which is right about a woman displaying her ass or tits on a revealing way? Get over it girl.

 

[mattto]

Totally agree. If a guy is wearing shorts which allow the shape and size of his cock to be visible, then what's wrong with that? If he's clearly aroused and sporting an erection under the shorts, and then making this obviously visible, then that's another thing. I could imagine a girl or even some guys being unnerved by that. But really, a dude with a nice (soft) package, what's wrong with that which is right about a woman displaying her ass or tits on a revealing way? Get over it girl.

Yes, you have what you've got and you don't have to be ashamed of it, big or small. I've grown up in a country where nudity is not an issue. In Finland we usually go all nude in sauna. If you happen to have a big one, just be proud!

 

[DSF140]

The problem is hers, not yours. What if you were to tell some chick that her tits are too big because they make you think of sex, or it makes you see her as a sexual being? Just like some guys think that they can control and sexualize women, some women think that they can control and emasculate men, which is what she is literally trying to do.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I yottabyte get you buddy. it had happened to me too, is usually woman the dear to challenge something like that, not guys, but the point here is It used to make me uncomfortable, but I’m way pass that.. since the first and last time a woman pointe it out and as the same thing to me.. I reply “ if you don’t like it, then don’t look at it” and specially harder for gay boys like me…some woman can’t stand a gay boy being very handsome, or very muscular, or very well endowed… not all woman are like that I’m sure. but I never had a guy say anything to me about how big my bulge is.. and wen you big you’r big there is nothing you can do. I don’t go out of my way to show it nor to conceal it.

oh good lord I know you guys got it but I’m really need to pay attention before I send my message I meant: “totally “

 

[gavlenils]

I use UnderArmor boxers to hold my package in place but a big bulge is always visible in my gym shorts. Usually I don’t mind but a girl told me lately that it was “inappropriate” (she thought I was hard in public).

How do you handle these situations? Do you know any brands of sports pants that hide it better?

Why not just tell her the truth? It's not your responsibility to hide your bulge and to be honest, must people doesn't react like her.

Not that it has anything to do with it, but I would give anything to experience something similar.

 

[deleted19419241]

Why not just tell her the truth? It's not your responsibility to hide your bulge and to be honest, must people doesn't react like her.

Not that it has anything to do with it, but I would give anything to experience something similar.

Yeah you’re right….

Sadly it’s when I told her that she said she didn’t believe me, that it was impossible and that it had to be an erection. I just said “whatever” and left (I had to change place anyways)

 

[deleted19419241]

Why not just tell her the truth? It's not your responsibility to hide your bulge and to be honest, must people doesn't react like her.

Not that it has anything to do with it, but I would give anything to experience something similar.

There are good parts in being huge but you certainly wouldn’t like these moments… it’s so annoying and embarrassing.

 

[gavlenils]

There are good parts in being huge but you certainly wouldn’t like these moments… it’s so annoying and embarrassing.

It's hard to put yourself in other people's situations, so I just wrote as I perceived the situation. Sorry if I seemed insensitive.

 

[deleted19419241]

It's hard to put yourself in other people's situations, so I just wrote as I perceived the situation. Sorry if I seemed insensitive.

Hahaha no not at all! I get it

 

[Jon1971]

Why not just tell her the truth? It's not your responsibility to hide your bulge and to be honest, must people doesn't react like her.

Not that it has anything to do with it, but I would give anything to experience something similar.

Exactly, might as well tell her to hide her boobs

 

[chicagofreeball]

I use UnderArmor boxers to hold my package in place but a big bulge is always visible in my gym shorts. Usually I don’t mind but a girl told me lately that it was “inappropriate” (she thought I was hard in public).

How do you handle these situations? Do you know any brands of sports pants that hide it better?

You tell her I'm a concerned voice that having her tits poking out in public is "inappropriate" and she should cover them up. Then walk away.

 

[Jake1973]

The problem is hers, not yours. What if you were to tell some chick that her tits are too big because they make you think of sex, or it makes you see her as a sexual being? Just like some guys think that they can control and sexualize women, some women think that they can control and emasculate men, which is what she is literally trying to do.

Came here to say this . Women wear sports bras and spandex pants in gyms because they are athletic gear. Women's breasts, hips, and buttocks are obvious on their bodies. Nobody would suggest they should bind them to go work out. If you are not wearing a Speedo or some kind of fetish gear that is engineered to outline your cock in an obscene way, nobody should be hassling you about it.

 

[Sneaker1st]

Don’t hide it.

 

[Giuliaverdi0000]

I use UnderArmor boxers to hold my package in place but a big bulge is always visible in my gym shorts. Usually I don’t mind but a girl told me lately that it was “inappropriate” (she thought I was hard in public).

How do you handle these situations? Do you know any brands of sports pants that hide it better?

Let us see what she was looking at

 

[Jon1971]

Deleted user. You're never going to see it.

Let us see what she was looking at

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I said this before .. there is a lot of straight woman the seems very treating about her hot man showing off their anatomy.. our society is pretty much F&@%#d up.. a woman clothing is billion dollar industry to enhance their figures .. from wire bras, to push ups, thighs, booty short.. on and on .. so they can show off their knockers. here us restaurants to glorify boobs . “Hooters “ we man have knowers too . just downstairs, lol.. anyway but wen a man show any of his attributes sone people seem to be disgusted … is these a double standard ? or a very hypocritical sex inequality ?

Ones in a profesional environment (training) the leader of that course asked the other trainees to evaluate every other ones appearances, wen it was my term a woman said m: “the only thing I can see is his dick” I was wearing a business suit” the must embarrassing situation I had ever being, I didn’t want to give her more fuel, only thing I could answer was “how interesting were your attention is” and I thought if this would be the other way around. I would be taking out of the office and bering lecture about sexual harassment or arrested, if I say anything like that to a female “ I can only see your nipples, or your camel toe”

 

[clif]

I works nights, my co worker who was always looking at porn his phone came over to have lunch he started watching porn his BBCgot so hard he just sat down until he went soft but that got, me hard as fuck! I even pre-cum I always wanted to jack off with him I don't fuck guys but I do like jerking with them.