The men on this site seem about as fascinated by showing their package off correctly in clothing as women are about showing their tits off in the right shirt. I'm going to assume that gay men are bulge-watchers for the moment and ask the ladies about this. Do you stare or look at men's bulges in their pants on a regular basis when you're out in public? I see a lot of men on here outlining what pants/shorts/underwear etc. they wear to get the ladies attention and they seem to be getting appreciative glances. OR think they do. I have to say, I am most definitely NOT a bulge looker, and if I do happen to be staring in the face of some guy's package for some reason, I actually get a little uncomfortable. Generally when looking at a man in public, I first see his face, his body and how it's dressed... it's not even in my thought process to check out the bulge. Now, I'm not saying that bulges in underwear are not hot. Far from it-- I love to see the man I am bedding in a pair of underwear or sweatpants that show off the goods in an unassuming, sexy way. I had an ex that would wear nothing but a pair of sweats when he was at home and the sight of him getting hard in them, hell, even the thought of it made me a little wet. But I'm not a bulge looker in public by any means. Other ladies? Men too, even though I am making the assumption that gay men (maybe even straight men) check out the bulges more than I do simply from what I've read on this site.