I have a friend who I'm very close to. The only thing is that we also bump heads like crazy. We have for a long time. He's done things that have really pissed me off, I've done things that have really pissed him off. I've never had any other friendship like this, it's really awkward. There are certain things though that he did a long time ago that make me furious thinking about it now--I'd rather not go into them here though. Too uncomfortable to talk about, even here at LPSG (kind of says how bad it is, huh). They're actually very awkward things that I don't even know I could bring up to him. I feel the need to do it though since it's been bothering me a lot lately, the only problem is that it would probably kill our friendship. That's sort of my question--if I have these feelings towards him, should I even continue my friendship with him? We've been friends for maybe 3 years now and have had an amazing bond, although at the same time we've had huge fights. I'm not really bitter about the fights, it's just that these awkward things I want to bring up to him have been unsettling. I can almost say that this love/hate friendship is really 50/50 respectively, so I don't know which way to go. Has anyone been in a similiar situation? If so, what did you do?