Burnt Out on Porn

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It seems like I have seen so much straight porn that I have grown used to seeing naked women, so they don't arouse me nearly as much as before. On the other hand, I didnt use to pay much attention to cocks, so now they seem more exciting or something. I dont really want to be gay so I guess I am going to stop watching porn altogether for a while, so it doesnt seem so common. I could try to burn myself out on men but I dont know if the same thing will happen. Has this happened to anyone else?
 

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Macarion said:
It seems like I have seen so much straight porn that I have grown used to seeing naked women, so they don't arouse me nearly as much as before. On the other hand, I didnt use to pay much attention to cocks, so now they seem more exciting or something. I dont really want to be gay so I guess I am going to stop watching porn altogether for a while, so it doesnt seem so common. I could try to burn myself out on men but I dont know if the same thing will happen. Has this happened to anyone else?

It's time to put the porn away and go outside, read a book, hang out with friends...
 

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Like shopping at Wal-Mart, porn gets tiring after a while but I guarantee that the old enthusiasm will return if you stay away from it for a while.
 

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I used to work in "the biz" for about 9 months or so. I got so de-sensitized on porn it literally became work. lol (I was a designer/photo editor, not a model or anything)

Just take a break, or you'll find yourself searching for veeeery specific things, and then PAYING for very specific things. It's a vicious circle and before you know it you're neck up in "kink" and can't get hard unless you've got a butt plug in your ass, a ball-gag in your mouth with candle wax dripping on your balls and a fat chick in stillettos trampling your cock.

I'm serious. It's how the industry keeps making money.
 

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In-person fetishes can get just as specific. I come from the city of types... I only like 18 to 19 year-old latino boys with light complexions, braces and between 130 and 135 pounds. Hair should be in a buzz cut with one tattoo maximum, only in the deltoid area. He should have an accent but be well-spoken. Dress should be baggy clothes and demeanor fairly quiet. I expect him to be a bottom with a penis at least 5 inches but no more than 6.25, naturally smooth but not shaved or trimmed. His holes must be available for my group of bears to use....ad nauseum.
 

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Sorcerer said:
In-person fetishes can get just as specific. I come from the city of types... I only like 18 to 19 year-old latino boys with light complexions, braces and between 130 and 135 pounds. Hair should be in a buzz cut with one tattoo maximum, only in the deltoid area. He should have an accent but be well-spoken. Dress should be baggy clothes and demeanor fairly quiet. I expect him to be a bottom with a penis at least 5 inches but no more than 6.25, naturally smooth but not shaved or trimmed. His holes must be available for my group of bears to use....ad nauseum.

And DAMMIT if I haven't met guys and girls who have a fucking laundry list like that. BLEH.


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'nuf said.

So, if I delete the Gigs of pron off my computer and stop watching, I will stop being gay? Wow. Who knew?
 

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I wasn't joking. I've listened to the list many times. I listened to one almost dead-on. I've been rejected several times in the past for not conforming to someone's specifics.

What the fuck did they know.

I also get the whole "You know, I am not usually that attracted to black guys, but you..."
 

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"Hi im Hotofficeguy and im a porn addict", I dont know what it is about porn i HAVE to see some sort of porn, gay, straight or whatever. My sex life is great my husband is satisfied. I just cant explain it. Its a problem now, it gets in the way of my work. I used to love my job, I still do in fact. I think it all boils down to when I was younger sex was never talked about in our home. I never got the birds and bees talk. All my cock was, a part of my body that identified me as a boy. I learned about sex from television. I've always been a person if you told me it was wrong or bad I had to experience it myself to find out. But to get back on track I get burnt out on porn. When I stop looking at porn I get so F**KN horny I look for any chance to jerk off mostly in the shower or with my husband. I better quite now im rambling. sorry guys.
 

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I stopped using pornography for masturbation 10 months ago. Mastubation without porn is still difficult for me because I've been doing it my whole life, but I've noticed a big improvement in my sex life when I'm actually with someone. I feel much more present sexually and aware of my body. I don't intend to go back to porn. Anyone else had a similar experience?

hotofficeguy said:
"Hi im Hotofficeguy and im a porn addict", I dont know what it is about porn i HAVE to see some sort of porn, gay, straight or whatever. My sex life is great my husband is satisfied. I just cant explain it. Its a problem now, it gets in the way of my work. I used to love my job, I still do in fact. I think it all boils down to when I was younger sex was never talked about in our home. I never got the birds and bees talk. All my cock was, a part of my body that identified me as a boy. I learned about sex from television. I've always been a person if you told me it was wrong or bad I had to experience it myself to find out. But to get back on track I get burnt out on porn. When I stop looking at porn I get so F**KN horny I look for any chance to jerk off mostly in the shower or with my husband. I better quite now im rambling. sorry guys.
 

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markx3 said:
I stopped using pornography for masturbation 10 months ago. Mastubation without porn is still difficult for me because I've been doing it my whole life, but I've noticed a big improvement in my sex life when I'm actually with someone. I feel much more present sexually and aware of my body. I don't intend to go back to porn. Anyone else had a similar experience?

I know what you're saying. I use porn for inspiration when my partner isn't available. The hardcore porn wank is more intense but working from memories only is more sensual. If she's away for a while I think it's good to keep things exercised and relaxed both ways.

Too much porn and you'll get a little burnt out though. Porn has it's place though especially when you're younger I think. You want to be a little desensitized the first time or you're not going to last. Being able to perform with a little desensentization(sp) sometimes is good when you are focusing on her pleasure. & watching women cum is as much/more fun for me than cumming myself (since that means a little downtime)

Computer games are more addictive to me.