A little while back, a guy IM'ed me and asked me to cam. So, I did as he seemed cool, and so we both popped on our cams. His was quite dark, and I couldnt see much....so I asked him to turn on a light. He was Hesitant. He could see me, but I couldnt see him. So I asked again, and he finally turned on a light. At first I was shocked, and started to loose my boner on cam, but I quickly tried to keep it at attention so as not to offend. There he sat, with a burnt and scarred lower body. Being the softie that I am....and now realizing...this is NOT what to do... I asked him about it, just to hear his story, and sympathize. He quickly shut off his cam, and I never got to speak with him again. I would imagine being burnt is the ultimate mental and physical trauma for anyone to live through, and have to deal with on a daily basis for being "Different". It's not something they can turn off with a pill, or fix in any way. Have you ever had such an experience, where it's a bit of a shocker? What have you said, or not said to protect their feelings, or were they upfront about it?