About every 2-3 years, my job sends a group of reps to a national conference. I've been 4 times, and the last 3 times I've hooked up with a guy who's from the midwest office in Chicago. We're both about the same age, both married, both with great jobs for a great company. And quite frankly, the sex is "off the chain". He's in my "top 5" personal best category. Basically it's us releasing total pent-up sexual frustration-- about 2 years worth! So we would just "hit it and quit it". What made it work so well was our "no-strings" policy. After we hooked up, there were never any emails or phone calls. In fact, we've been on several conference calls at work and barely acknowledged each other. (but my dick was hard the whole time) Well, I just got an email from this guy today. The company is transferring him to one of our mid-atlantic offices-- and my office is on the list!! He doesn't know which one yet, but the whole thing SCARES THE HELL OUT OF ME!! I did not reply to his email yet. I'm really nervous about this, b/c I'm in the middle of a seperation. This guy would be too much temptation, and way too close for comfort. It really complicates things for me. Maybe my extra-marital activities are catching up to haunt me. Or, maybe all this is happening for a reason. I'm usually very rational and objective, but I truly don't know how to figure out this one. I need some advice. And I'd really appreciate some wisdom from you older guys-- the "Been There, Done That" tribe.