Bussy - so fucking CRINGE

[coordinatedchaos]

Seriously, why is there this trend to equate male-on-male sex with male/female sex?
as a man, one's arse is neither a vulva nor a vagina.
sure - if people want to do this as a kink, so be it. but it's cringe to see the word "bussy" online all over the place. Nobody HAS to "feel female" when getting fucked. Maybe part of the reason is said people are actually trans, and haven't admitted it to themselves yet or come out. If so, more power to them. And in that case, it makes sense for a trans woman getting fucked in her ass to call it a bussy, even if she is non-op and never wants SRS.

I agree with this article - it's fucking cringe. How Gay Men Actually Feel About the Word 'Bussy'

 

[Sagittarius84]

Seriously, why is there this trend to equate male-on-male sex with male/female sex?
as a man, one's arse is neither a vulva nor a vagina.
sure - if people want to do this as a kink, so be it. but it's cringe to see the word "bussy" online all over the place. Nobody HAS to "feel female" when getting fucked. Maybe part of the reason is said people are actually trans, and haven't admitted it to themselves yet or come out. If so, more power to them. And in that case, it makes sense for a trans woman getting fucked in her ass to call it a bussy, even if she is non-op and never wants SRS.

I agree with this article - it's fucking cringe. How Gay Men Actually Feel About the Word 'Bussy'

Plumbing. At its core the simplest expression of male/female sex is male penetrates, female is penetrated, and this attitude is reflected in our social dynamics. Nobody HAS to "feel male" when fucking, but I don't think it's surprising the studly/butch half of a lesbian couple is usually wearing the strap.
A lot of gay men lean into women's allyship and social support moreso than earning camaraderie from other men, and this one of the unforseen consequences of doing so.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Plumbing. At its core the simplest expression of male/female sex is male penetrates, female is penetrated, and this attitude is reflected in our social dynamics. Nobody HAS to "feel male" when fucking, but I don't think it's surprising the studly/butch half of a lesbian couple is usually wearing the strap.
A lot of gay men lean into women's allyship and social support moreso than earning camaraderie from other men, and this one of the unforseen consequences of doing so.

the plumbing is different. a man cannot get pregnant. the mechanics are therefore not the same, even if there are similarities. that said, equating it totally to male/female sex is odd.
you bussy advocates are hypocritically intolerant. you want acceptance but then if others say they don't agree (which seemingly is the masses) you whine and say others are not imaginative enough or are "bad". let people have their tastes.
You also make a lot of projections and wild assumptions. which gays have "women's allyship"? even if that were the case, it doesn't necessaite thinking one is female. with respect, your logic is very twisted and badly applied. One can be an. advocate for feminism without taking on a female persona. I doubt that many men who have anal sex have that strong allegiance with women's issues as you cite. and even then it's an odd link to make.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Moroever, YOUR experience doesn't mesh for all, nor can it.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Plumbing. At its core the simplest expression of male/female sex is male penetrates, female is penetrated, and this attitude is reflected in our social dynamics. Nobody HAS to "feel male" when fucking, but I don't think it's surprising the studly/butch half of a lesbian couple is usually wearing the strap.
A lot of gay men lean into women's allyship and social support moreso than earning camaraderie from other men, and this one of the unforseen consequences of doing so.

many men don't feel female whilst getting fucked. what works for you doesn't work for others. it seems you don't get what sex positivity is, or you have a very internally skewed view of such.
but then like the other "breeding advocates", you'd worm you way out and turn tables on others. lol. never accepting another view. i said your view is cringe. that's not the same as saying it's inherently invalid. but you'd never not equate the two. you can view my view as cringe, and i genuinely will move on and won't care.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

funny how you people are so hypocritical and in your heads.
"everybody hasthe right to an opinion!" really? do you ACTUALLY believe that? Or I'm not part of everybody? Or everybody has no context, and means every person? lol. weirdos.

 

[bigdickdaddy4bttms]

Who truly cares who calls it what? If you don't like it, don't say it or use the terminology. You're not important enough to dictate what other people find erotic and turn them on. Nor will you be having sex with half the individuals who use such a word - so why worry about it?

Instead of finding it "cringe," go have the sex YOU want to have with the people YOU find hot. So easy.

 

[Urien]

Don't say it.

I think there are situations in sex when a guy telling another fuck "fuck my pussy/bussy" is really hot.

 

[WilliamG]

It's not part of my vocabulary. But if the situation is right and the guy getting ready to fuck me wants to call my ass a "bussy"... I don't care. BTW, there are similar terms such as "breeder" that signify the guy likes to cum in your ass without a condom. Men's Health is to men what Cosmopolitan was to women. I would not put too much stock into what they are saying.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Who truly cares who calls it what? If you don't like it, don't say it or use the terminology. You're not important enough to dictate what other people find erotic and turn them on. Nor will you be having sex with half the individuals who use such a word - so why worry about it?

Instead of finding it "cringe," go have the sex YOU want to have with the people YOU find hot. So easy.

No I find it cringe. As do many others. Seems that bothers you. It shouldn’t. It’s also comical that you grossly misread the point. Though who are you to limit what others can say vis a vis a sexual act? You’d see via a. Google search that my view is common. Since this word is common online it’s just cringe to see that’s all.

Insecure people regulate others unnecessarily. Or want the world to share their kinks

 

[coordinatedchaos]

It's not part of my vocabulary. But if the situation is right and the guy getting ready to fuck me wants to call my ass a "bussy"... I don't care. BTW, there are similar terms such as "breeder" that signify the guy likes to cum in your ass without a condom. Men's Health is to men what Cosmopolitan was to women. I would not put too much stock into what they are saying.

It’s cringe either way

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Don't say it.

I think there are situations in sex when a guy telling another fuck "fuck my pussy/bussy" is really hot.

As a man I won’t ever tolerate it. I don’t need to. Funny how sexually open people are rank hypocrites

 

[Nanashi1]

Instead of finding it "cringe," go have the sex YOU want to have with the people YOU find hot. So easy.

I'm going to hazard a guess that, irrespective of the topic at hand, the OP isn't having much in the way of sex at all.

@coordinatedchaos: you can respond to multiple posts in the same reply, you know.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

"Cringe" Terminally online lol

 

[bigdickdaddy4bttms]

No I find it cringe. As do many others. Seems that bothers you. It shouldn’t. It’s also comical that you grossly misread the point. Though who are you to limit what others can say vis a vis a sexual act? You’d see via a. Google search that my view is common. Since this word is common online it’s just cringe to see that’s all.

Insecure people regulate others unnecessarily. Or want the world to share their kinks

The only insecure person here on this thread is you, boo. You decided to tell us what made you insecure, which is the word, "BUSSY." So like...choices. Get some therapy or something. It'll possibly help.

 

[viscountwxyz]

I find it stupid as well.

You do you... but over there, please.

 

[halcyondays]

I don't care what a bottom calls his joyhole but "bussy" is not a term I use. It's cringe. I call a guy's butt his butt unless he has already referred to it as his ass or pussy or boihole or whatever.

In my experience bottoms use pussy more than any other term. Just depends on the individual.

 

[malakos]

Nobody HAS to "feel female" when getting fucked.

That's good, because no man is even capable of this. The very notion is nonsense.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

I'm going to hazard a guess that, irrespective of the topic at hand, the OP isn't having much in the way of sex at all.

@coordinatedchaos: you can respond to multiple posts in the same reply, you know.

fun in sex is completely relative.
again, another "sexually open" hypocrite who really wants to push their own views.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

The only insecure person here on this thread is you, boo. You decided to tell us what made you insecure, which is the word, "BUSSY." So like...choices. Get some therapy or something. It'll possibly help.

i find it cringe. i told you this. i'm glad you go through all of this "reading" based on a simple view. THAT is insecure! you should think why people saying it's cringe bothers you. Your lecturing is comical and baseless and for a "wise man" you have pretty odd communication.