Butt etiquette
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I've yet to directly insult anyone on this thread/quote]
and where do you think that came from? Probably cuz you called me one, in the post right before. Man, you are a little bitch
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I found this to be a hot post. I'm a feminist, and I prefer a little disrespect in the bedroom. I prefer to be dominated in many ways.
But, I agree that he ought to be able to take as well as he gives. A dildo isn't the same as a penis, no. So, I gotta be able to see my man with another man at some point. It just makes me happy.
Oh. And, some women *do* orgasm easier from anal. You don't need your g-spot to be up your ass in order for that to occur. And, some women also easily orgasm from giving head.
*cough*
As far as buttiquette, I have to really trust a man to do anal with him. And, I prefer it if he just shoves it up there. Don't ask me...I'll tell you no. So, just go for it and if I really don't want you there, you'll find out soon enough.
I'm aware that I'm not typical in that way, though, so take it how you will.
How did I miss this post? Oh yeah, I quit this thread thinking no woman here would even begin to get the point. You maybe a Jane someday. If that ever happens I don't think I'd break her confidence about our mutually shared Sexual (with no SEX) Fantasy. That we could never pull off for each other.
To UKBBW_Denise, you may not like anal but it is certainly possible for women to enjoy it and orgasm from it -- trust me, some even prefer it.
It's not just a favor on her part; I'd never engage in anal sex with a partner who was bregrudgingly unwilling. I'm one of a fairly small amount of men that would take up the offer of reciprocation in the anal department, but then again I am very open-minded -- which also seems to relate to me being effectively bisexual.
However BigA's assertions that anal = gay are indeed false. It's not even homosexual if it's a woman doing it. And she may get psychological pleasure for indulging in role-reversal, or maybe you'll be moaning and enjoying it so much that she'll get into it too. I mean, why do some women like performing fellatio, or men like performing cunnilingus? The answer is psychological stimulation. It's indirect pleasure derived from enjoying pleasuring your partner and knowing you're making he or she want you.
And honestly, don't dog anal until you try it. If you try it (try it right, that is), and still don't like it, then you're allowed to dislike it. Until then, it's just ordinary, garden variety close-mindedness.
Spiker's comments are just inflammatory to get a response and he doesn't seem to know anything, so just shrug and pity his ignorance.
It's not just a favor on her part; I'd never engage in anal sex with a partner who was bregrudgingly unwilling. I'm one of a fairly small amount of men that would take up the offer of reciprocation in the anal department, but then again I am very open-minded -- which also seems to relate to me being effectively bisexual.
However BigA's assertions that anal = gay are indeed false. It's not even homosexual if it's a woman doing it. And she may get psychological pleasure for indulging in role-reversal, or maybe you'll be moaning and enjoying it so much that she'll get into it too. I mean, why do some women like performing fellatio, or men like performing cunnilingus? The answer is psychological stimulation. It's indirect pleasure derived from enjoying pleasuring your partner and knowing you're making he or she want you.
And honestly, don't dog anal until you try it. If you try it (try it right, that is), and still don't like it, then you're allowed to dislike it. Until then, it's just ordinary, garden variety close-mindedness.
Spiker's comments are just inflammatory to get a response and he doesn't seem to know anything, so just shrug and pity his ignorance.
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Nitrofiend - I have said that I have tried it lots of times - that I still don't like it. I have also said that it's different strokes for different folks. I've never never never said that no woman likes it.
I am NOT closed minded!
What are you? 18? Believe me flower, I'd been there and done that before you were even born! lol
I am NOT closed minded!
What are you? 18? Believe me flower, I'd been there and done that before you were even born! lol
You cant call a girl yours until youve fucked her in the ass. Some women like to discuss it and work up to it, some will only let you if you have the balls to just go for it without asking. Some women enjoy a bold and assertive man. Some women seek sensativity or even submission from a man. To each his/her own. The bottom line is, most women have done it before, so if she wont let you, she doesnt like you as much as the guy who got in.
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Why not? - He might enjoy it! :biggrin1:Dont let the door hit you in the ass
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(a) women don't have a g-spot up their arse - but YOU do, care to bend over and see what all the fuss is about?
I don't have a problem with you not liking anal, you have every right to say so having stated that you've evidently tried it numerous times. I never pointed a finger to you in reference to you being close-minded about anal.
I pointed a finger because with the above related comment (and a few others), you don't like anal, and you convey an air of not seeing why some women do (in the physiological sense at least).
The anus is an errogenous zone in and of itself, loaded with nerves, and has direct and indirect stimulations of all sorts of spots you also hit during vaginal sex. And it's completely possible for women to orgasm from anal.
It's virtually impossible to tell who enjoys that kind of stimulation more, men or women. I'd vote women, just because they have so many different tripwires down there in contrast to men, who are often pretty simplistic in regards to where their pleasure and orgasms are derived.
I have no problem with you, and I find it hilarious that the word "feminist" is seen as such a bad connotation when most westernized women are feminists by definition. There's a difference between a feminist and a feminazi (or "man-hater"). You're clearly the former. I just wanted to bring it to your attention how you were coming across to me with those comments.
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I can certainly understand why anal may have been quite unpleasant if you were first "experiencing" it when you were younger than 15 years old
But men have prostates up there, don't they? :biggrin1:
To answer the OP's question; if you think you can slip it in my arse without stretching and lubing me first, you totally deserve the kick in the nuts I will deliver. Case closed.
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P.S. I can certainly understand why anal may have been quite unpleasant if you were first "experiencing" it when you were younger than 15 years old
There are no stories - I was with the same lad for several years and we were pretty adventurous. I did try it for the first time at 15, and if I'm honest, that was probably the least uncomfortable time.
I concede that the ANUS is an erogonous zone - not so, necessarily, the rectum. I love rimming and being rimmed, there being almost as many nerve endings around the anus as in a clitoris. It's possible that for a lot of women who really enjoy anal sex, it is the notion rather than the sensation that gives them pleasure. If you see it as a really kinky and 'dirty' thing to do then it can enhance things, much like many other sexual activities. I've never seen it as particularly kinky or dirty myself. Of course, there will be women who just purely enjoy the sensation of anal sex... but when withdrawing it feels like you're doing a #2, and as I've said, that's never been even remotely erotic for me LOL.
But I definitely think in terms of which of the sexes derives most direct pleasure from anal sex, it is men - purely because of the prostate gland. Myself and my female friends are really open about sex, and only one of them actively enjoys anal sex. But she says it's not because it feels good, it's because it really turns her boyfriend on. But then, she also enjoys having bulldog clips on her nips and labia - so I'm not sure her endorsement is cause to reconsider my views on it lol
I fucked for the first time when i was 14, i got fucked when i was 16.
Even that was an earlyer age to begin "that", we both felt good and we are still doing that without problems.
The first time he asked me to fuck him, subsequently I have always asked him if i could do that, because i think that if you are "prepared" to take it you might feel less pain. Ofcourse he do the same when he wants to.
My opinion is ask
Even that was an earlyer age to begin "that", we both felt good and we are still doing that without problems.
The first time he asked me to fuck him, subsequently I have always asked him if i could do that, because i think that if you are "prepared" to take it you might feel less pain. Ofcourse he do the same when he wants to.
My opinion is ask
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