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I have a set of anal trainers, but they're for use before I get fucked or when it's been a while so I can still stay loose enough to get fucked. My bf has a very thick dick so we have to prepare accordingly. Are you using one for pleasure or are you working up to something big?
 

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I have some butt plugs that I use frequently, I sleep with one in my ass almost every night and often wear it all day. It's in my ass now.
The plug that I sleep with and wear all day is 5x5 and I can put a small vibe in it. I like to have it in when I'm giving blowjobs too.
I also have a couple of larger ones that I use to exercise my hole.
I serve a top that comes to town on business every couple of months who is hung 9x6 and his husband is 7x5. He told me they will both be here in June and they want to dp me. I was chatting with another fb about it and he sent me a gift of a toy to use to stretch my hole that is 10" long and tapers from 6" at the tip to 12" at the base. I work out with it every night and so far I can get down to where it's 8 1/2" in circumference.
I serve some very well hung tops and keeping my hole stretched makes anal sex much more comfortable and pleasurable for me.
The jokes about someone like me losing control of their bowels isn't true. I have even more control of my sphincter now and I'm told that my ability to milk a cock with my ass is pretty amazing. (I do Kegels with a plug in my ass)
 

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I have a set of anal trainers, but they're for use before I get fucked or when it's been a while so I can still stay loose enough to get fucked. My bf has a very thick dick so we have to prepare accordingly. Are you using one for pleasure or are you working up to something big?

I have been interested in exploring getting fisted. When I was chatting with someone on line they said to start stretching on my own and work up. So I bought what appears to be a medium size plug and over the last few weeks it's been incredible wearing it. I've worn it out a few times on short outings and sitting in the car rocking back and forth practically milks my prostate.

But over the course of these short weeks, it's too easy going in and out (it's about 6" long and maybe 2" thick. It goes in easy and pops into place. Is it too soon to move up to a larger size?
 

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But over the course of these short weeks, it's too easy going in and out (it's about 6" long and maybe 2" thick. It goes in easy and pops into place. Is it too soon to move up to a larger size?

No...if you can take it easily, then it's time to move up. My medium plug pops right in...but I usually start with it before I attempt to take the big one or my dildo.
 
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No...if you can take it easily, then it's time to move up. My medium plug pops right in...but I usually start with it before I attempt to take the big one or my dildo.

Good idea! I'll go this week and get the larger plug. I wonder how a bottom playmate will feel if I tell him I want to wear it while I top him. Sometimes we switch but more often than not he just wants to bottom. I'm thinking I'll have the best of both worlds this way.
 

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Good idea! I'll go this week and get the larger plug. I wonder how a bottom playmate will feel if I tell him I want to wear it while I top him. Sometimes we switch but more often than not he just wants to bottom. I'm thinking I'll have the best of both worlds this way.

It will be amazing.
 

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I just got the set of DJ Sexy Spades glass plugs.

Dj Glass Sexy Spades Doc Johnson® Pyrex Glass Butt Plug

They're incredible; the best butt plugs yet.
The small one feels pretty good though it's a little smaller than I like. The large one is too big to wear all day or night - for now.
The medium is just right. I can't believe how good it feels. I had it in all day yesterday doing errands, grocery shopping, etc. It never felt like it was going to fall out and I stayed so turned on I thought I would go crazy.
One thing I like is that I can use any lube, including my Gun Oil. That way I can wear it on a date and be "prelubed".
 
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So this might be a dumb question but with a butt plug does it stay in the ass with no doing on your part or do you have to squeeze your ass against it to hold it in??
 

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With my silicone plugs I have to keep some muscle tension. My butt cheeks around the base help to hold it in too but I'm not confident that it's secure enough to go out in public. Sometimes at home I have "accidents".
With the medium glass one I don't really have to do that. The size and shape seem to be perfect to hold it in. The shaft portion is big enough to keep my hole slightly stretched. It takes slow steady pressure to put it in and to take it out. My hole has to be really relaxed. I've tried to relax enough to make it fall out but so far it won't come out by itself.
 
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Ok. Good to know. I was wondering because with a dildo I tend to push out when its in me. I figured the same would happen with a butt plug.
 

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ok, so yesterday I bought an icicle no. 25, dunno why, but ithought it would be interresting to see how this anal play works.
I get home tired, so I Basically go straight to bed.
Now, at 11 am gm +1 I wake up and decide to learn something about anal play.
I find this thread, read it all through, get my icicle, put it in after a little wiggling, and I must say... I HAVE NEVER FELT BETTER MYENTIRE LIFE!! it hads been in for 1,5 hours, and it does not hurt... i think i hit gold on first try! woot woot!:smile:
 

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i wear a plug almost 24/7. some i can wear without the buttplug harness. the ones that i need the harness for are straight sided...like a papertowel roll,although not as long
..as they have nothing to grab onto..get my drift..
my favorite ones are the soft ones from ..square peg plugs..
to fuck someone while you are plugged is the best feeling...hard to keep from cumming too soon. good luck and keep us posted:biggrin1:
 
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I have been interested in exploring getting fisted. When I was chatting with someone on line they said to start stretching on my own and work up. So I bought what appears to be a medium size plug and over the last few weeks it's been incredible wearing it. I've worn it out a few times on short outings and sitting in the car rocking back and forth practically milks my prostate.

But over the course of these short weeks, it's too easy going in and out (it's about 6" long and maybe 2" thick. It goes in easy and pops into place. Is it too soon to move up to a larger size?
What is the biggest you can go out with
 

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I just got the set of DJ Sexy Spades glass plugs.

Dj Glass Sexy Spades Doc Johnson® Pyrex Glass Butt Plug

They're incredible; the best butt plugs yet.
The small one feels pretty good though it's a little smaller than I like. The large one is too big to wear all day or night - for now.
The medium is just right. I can't believe how good it feels. I had it in all day yesterday doing errands, grocery shopping, etc. It never felt like it was going to fall out and I stayed so turned on I thought I would go crazy.
One thing I like is that I can use any lube, including my Gun Oil. That way I can wear it on a date and be "prelubed".

Kind of sounds like a gay fairy tale like Goldilocks....too big....too small...just right!
 
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When I'm watching porn with my girlfriend or my fuck buddy, I always have a butt plug in place. I like having one in when I'm fucking — to be filled up myself when I'm fucking a pussy or another ass is awesome. The last time I was on a beach, I wore a butt plug under my thong. I have both glass and a solid silicone ones. I needed to experiment with various styles to find plugs that stay firmly in place, A good sized medium with a narrow neck and enough flange to hold it firm is what you should look for. I started out with a small which was useless, It wouldn't stay in place and kept popping out.
 

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Hi, hello

I'm looking for butt plug which will stretch my anus NOT when I put in or out, but even when it will be instered in during the day. 1108749.jpg


So I need butt plug with very thick neck
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nd with shape that allows to me wear during the day secure without popout. I don't need long plug.
I can insert at this moment dildo or plug with 6cm (2,4") diameter in bulb section.
Any recomendation?
 

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I ordered a butt plug, the site said it was small but it's bigger than expected. I've worn it at night a few times, usually taking it out when it gets uncomfortable (3am-ish). I want to work up to wearing it during the day, starting on the weekends, and maybe eventually at work.

I'm guessing eventually I'll have to wear it, which I don't mind. I've noticed I'm loose for a day or two after sleeping with it. Does anyone here live in these things? Do you ever get to the point where you don't notice them? I like the feeling, but I want to be really used to it before I go to work with it. Does it permanently stretch you out? I don't mind that, kinda hoping for it actually.

Anyway, just curious from a newbie. Fit 41 year old gay guy here just finally decided to start exploring my piggy side.